My advice to you if you're incel
This is especially if u are older than, lets say, 23, cause alot of your personality is already set in stone now, if not all of it. Maybe ure just naturally introverted or somewhat "shy", highly inhibited. Or you're simply and ugly duckling.
1. forget about pursuing women for sex that much
2. Make as much money as you can, focus on your career/job, get skilled in something people really need who will give you good money for your services. Feeling ure good at something is super important, having a purpose is super important for male well being.
3. Get validation/love from family/relatives, this is very important, we all need a strong emotional support. Help them and let them help you, be a good member of the family.
4. Get a good group of GUY friends, this is more difficult than it sounds, but I truly do believe this will bring alot of happiness and I also believe its important for a man to be a member of a group of guys, with similar goals and values.
5. The money you earn, take some of it and just buy high quality escorts. No matter how much of a slayer u are, Its extremely difficult to consistently **** VERY hot girls, as those girls are usually reserved for super high status men, celebrities etc. 2-3 times a month, **** a super hot escort.
6. When u become older and start thinking about getting a family/kids, lets say when u reach 30 or 35, find a girl from a good culture with strong family values, and marry her. If ure a white-cel, getting a girl from asia is super super easy. Ive heard some eastern european countries are pretty easy too, but not as much.
This will take care of your sexual needs, your emotional/validation needs and its way less stressful than putting alot of time and energy into ****ing different women.