Makedde
Xena: Warrior Princess
Let me bring up something which I posted ages ago but didn't really get a reply to it.
A woman and her boyfriend have been together for 2 years. She gets pregnant. He is happy, says he will support her and her baby. She doesn't want the baby, so has an abortion, because it is her body, and she do with it what she will. The man is devastated, he wanted his child, and is upset that his girlfriend killed it.
A woman falls pregnant to her boyfriend. He doesn't want the baby at all, but she does. She decides to keep the child. They break up, then when the baby is born, the woman sues the man for child support. The man know has to pay child support to help raise a child he never wanted in the first place.
Both men are punished for a choice they did not make. Why is a woman able to abort a child that is wanted by the father, but can sue a man for child support and have him pay for a child he didn't want? Doesn't seem fair to me.
Here's something else.
A man has HIV, and has unprotected sex with a woman, passing the disease to her. Weeks before she had an abortion, the father being the man with HIV. She demands to know why he didn't tell her he was HIV postive, and he demands to know why she didn't tell him she was pregnant with his child, and didn't tell him she was going to have an abortion. She says 'it's my right to have an abortion, it is my body', to which he replys 'well, this is my body, too, and my right as whether I tell anyone I am HIV positive'
Who is in the wrong here? Should a man with HIV have to tell any woman he is infected before he has sex with them? As it is HIS body, doesn't he also have a CHOICE as to whether he tells his sexual partners he has HIV? Isn't it the womans responsiblity to make sure the man uses a condom, seeing as she is the one who will get pregnant?
Whose fault is it that the woman has HIV? The mans fault, for not telling her, or her fault, for not insisting on him using a condom?