Abortion

I'm not saying stop him from walking out.. that's impossible. But all absent fathers should be forced to pay child support. I used to live with my mom and my dad wouldn't pay child support and that's a bunch of bullshit.. be more responsible if you don't want a kid. The mother has that backup that she could always get an abortion... the dad doesn't. You have to know that going into it. No matter what the girl tells you she can't stop you from wearing a condom.

why use abortion? Because having a child is not feasible. If you dont think it is the best option for you JM then dont have one. But why should you take that right away from someone you dont even know and who's life you havent lived.

No matter what the girl tells you she can't stop you from wearing a condom.

AC>if that father chooses to take no part in that childs life why should he pay child support? if the mother chooses to give that child up for adoption she doesnt have to pay child support? the father doesnt have that option. However the minute that dad wants to take part in his childs life he should be made to pay for it.

Ok so you are saying that let these girls have abortion as a choice.Even through it is killing a baby or whatever you call them.People should know that it is murder and it is not the easy way out.
Not much people know this but they should. JM

People should know that it is murder and it is not the easy way out.

Originally posted by Jackie Malfoy
Even through it is killing a baby or whatever you call them.

You see though.. that logic is flawed. If every time I had a responsibility I could just "not want any part in it" and wouldn't be forced to deal with it, my life would be pretty cool. But the lives of others around me wouldn't because then they'd have to clean up the mess I made with my own irresponsibility. If I was caught speeding and given a ticket, and decided I wanted nothing to do with that ticket does that exempt me from paying it even though my own actions cause me to get it in the first place? Well it's the same thing. If a guy gets a girl pregnant and decides he doesn't want anything to do with the kid, he can just walk out and never give her a dime? He can just leave her stranded left to deal with their consequences by herself? No. If I don't want a speeding ticket I'll be careful not to speed. If I don't want a child I'll be careful not to impregnate a girl. But once I make either one of those mistakes, it's my responsibility to deal with it.

yea but there are women out there that get pregnant to keep their men. Condoms are only 70% effective at preventing pregnancis which is useless. That means that every 3/10 times you use a condom you could get a girl pregnant. A woman can get out of having the responsibilty too - they can have an abortion or give the child up for adoption. it would be ideal if every man stepped up to the plate but you cant force someone to do something they dont want to.

There are also cops that set up speed traps just to write tickets.. still gotta pay em. So if the woman wants to keep her baby then what? People do have emotions.. and one of the most basic emotions is love for your children. If she has to give birth to her child and then raise it on her own and the dad doesn't even live with them, the least he could do is send a check every month to at least aid her for taking responsibility for both of their's consequence. And where did you get that statistic on condoms by the way? Just wondering.

Hey life is tough.My dad does not even live with my mom.Sure I see him but it is a very harad life.Either way it is still better to live then to be killed by the orders of your own mother.
I mean think about it .Your mother is the one puting you to death.How does that make you feel?Does it sound like she is caring f or you?No I don't think so./JM

i was taught that at school 70% - ive read it a few places too. All i know is condoms arent that effective at preventing pregnancies. i think the highest effectiveness ive read is 85% thats still pretty low

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"Used according to the instructions, condoms are 98% effective at preventing pregnancy. This means two women in 100 will get pregnant in a year."

http://hcd2.bupa.co.uk/fact_sheets/html/contraception.html

I think maybe you got the rate of preventing STDs mixed up with preventing pregnancy.

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Hmm...I always thought it was 85%, too. This might be accounting for the number of morons who can't figure out how to put a condom on, though. 🙂

It could.. but that doesn't excuse them from their parental responsibilities. That's why I believe we need better sex ed in school.

Yeah! Like a demonstration between the football players and the cheerleaders! We could then market it on the Internet for a couple of bucks.

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