I wish there were fewer people, my school fricking sucks 😖 I hate all but 5 or 6 kids on my hockey team for crying out loud (keep in mind, I have to put up with these bozos for a good 5 months), everyone in that school's either a whore or some freak with a chip on their shoulder...I ****ing hate it.
Anyways, I've got about two or so dozen people I can depend my life on though, so that works 😬
Originally posted by silver_tears
Well they're the parents cottages 😂Cept during the summer me and a bunch of friends rent a beach house for a week or so 😄 cause some of them are already 18 and all 😊
And I know what you mean about school, I can identify the 200 or so kids in my grade by name 😂
And so you know the parties with alcohol and loud music and dancing, get boring after awhile droolio
you rent a beach house 😱 how fun! i wanna go camping one time with my friends 😱 although i dont really like camping too much 😑 i think it would be really fun with friends ✅ but ill probly hve to wait till im like 17 or something for my parents to allow me to do so sneaky2
Originally posted by Darth Revan
Maybe I can't have a clue about how a parent feels in that position, you're right about that. But having been the skinny, nerdy, depressed kid myself makes me more than justified to talk about my thoughts on these things.
i feel that dr, you are getting at the point saying that "popular" people have it easy because theyre "well liked???"
you've obviously heard the saying "its whats on the inside that counts" i mean that doesnt only apply for looks no2 someone could seem happy on the outside, when on the inside their life is horrible! im not saying this is how my life is, i mean....all of us have pretended to be happy when theyre not, obviously, but ive read a lot, seen a lot of movies, and even known someone who this has applied to 😬 and its not always la-di-da-di-da being popular you know!? its not like popular people only cry when they break a nail 😬
Originally posted by Evy_O
Jedi Priestess> I know exactly what you're talking about, wether you are popular or not, friendships can be cruel at this age, cause children are 😖 I've had bad experiences with that myself, but you eventually reach a point where you deal with it and everything is great 😄ahem... it's not luck, it's upon you
personally, I hate those stupid complaints teenagers havethey claim they go through hell.
yeah f.ing right, they should look around and see people suffering every day, and realise that "teenage problems" are in fact nothing really importantthey claim they wanna have their revolution and be rebellious.
it's about time they do it right!! teenagers nowadays, with a few exceptions, are rebellious against their parents, instead of the people and situations they should normally revolute againstthey claim no-one understands them.
it's not like they LET anyone, cause they wanna seem special 🙄I'm not directing that towards YOU, Misha, but teenagers in general, and I STRONGLY believe that when you're 14, life is beautiful, and all you gotta do is just open your eyes and see it 😄
ok im not nieve you know! 🙄 im actually helping those people out. ive adopted one of the kids and pay them $1 a day and all that 😖 and my future, i plan to be rich, yes, and i know everyone does, but im going to succeed in this because im not planning to be rich for myself, i am planning to be rich for others, which is the most important thing. i find that doing things for others is one of the strongest ways to do something. because if you fail at it, you've let someone else down, as well as yourself, whereas if your doing something for yourself, you only let yourself down, but its your own fault because you dont have enough self motivation (most of the times)
and i do not appreciate you attacking teenagers like that. i understand you werent directing it to me directly, but you were directing it to me because i am a teenager. and life is different for everyone, so you cannot say that my life is perfect. im not going to go into the whole dramas of my life, because some people will think im looking for attention. but my problems are more than not having enough money for a new pair of jeans, or not being allowed to go to the movies.
Originally posted by m!$hA
ok im not nieve you know! 🙄 im actually helping those people out. ive adopted one of the kids and pay them $1 a day and all that 😖 and my future, i plan to be rich, yes, and i know everyone does, but im going to succeed in this because im not planning to be rich for myself, i am planning to be rich for others, which is the most important thing. i find that doing things for others is one of the strongest ways to do something. because if you fail at it, you've let someone else down, as well as yourself, whereas if your doing something for yourself, you only let yourself down, but its your own fault because you dont have enough self motivation (most of the times)and i do not appreciate you attacking teenagers like that. i understand you werent directing it to me directly, but you were directing it to me because i am a teenager. and life is different for everyone, so you cannot say that my life is perfect. im not going to go into the whole dramas of my life, because some people will think im looking for attention. but my problems are more than not having enough money for a new pair of jeans, or not being allowed to go to the movies.
This is a bit off-topic, but being rich -wether you do it for yourself or others- is not as simple and depends greatly on luck and personal skills rather than your motivation, but good luck anyway ✅
you have to know I am ALSO a teenager 🙄 I'm 17 years old, and I'm not "attacking" teenagers, I'm simply stating some facts that, if you ever decided to study sociology, you'd see they are true; I understand it's difficult to judge when you are at that age (13-19) but you'll see when you grow up (as everyone does)
I don't know about your problems, all I know is if there are people who can have great problems (for example health stuff) and STILL find the will and courage to deal with it, everyone with more minor issues should be able to do the same.
Now if you belong to this group of people with the 'greater problems', my apologies, if not, I stand to my point.
Evy is right if she says that most teenagers act like trival problems are things they can not overcome, when they get older they'll notice that the problems they had are really nothing compared to the real world, heck I'm only 20 and I can judge for myself that a lot of teenagers act like that, not all of them ofcourse but a lot of them. I also know that what I consider big problems ATM will look fairly trivial in a few years.
ok firstly i have to say that .... well i guess that is what i am saying 😖 i dont mean problems like 'omg i cant find my lip gloss #fear' and 'im so totally gonna die, my favourite pair of jeans are in the wash, and i need them to go to a party tonight weep' im not saying those problems. im saying stuff like having troubles with your friends, fighting with your parents, doing badly in school and always getting in trouble....which results to more fights with your parents....which makes you angry, so you dont wanna talk to anyone, so you go to school the next day in a pissy mood and noone will talk to you because you dont talk, and since your not talking to your parents or friends, your obviously not doing your work in class, which leads to the teachers yelling at you, and telling your parents and it just goes all around in a circle. and the one person you truly love in your family, who you never fight with, and have looked up to your whole life is never around, so youve got noone to talk to and things just get worse.
i know youre probably going to find this selfish of me, but i would rather have health problems then emotional problems. seriously. its like the saying something like "i would rather be poor and homeless and in love with someone and spend my whole life with them, than to be the welthiest man alive".......or whatever it is, you know what i mean 😉 it's the same thing. i would rather be physically hurting then emotionally hurting. because physically (i know not all the time, but most times) you can get better.....emotional scars your life forever. this is sort of relating to what jd (was it) said about her daughter. emotional problems scar you for life.
i wont go into huge detail coz this post is already long enough (sorry 😮) but my dad and i have had the word past (and present for that matter) i mean he's trying to make things up with me, but im not accepting it (mainly because he's trying to buy my love, and not spending time with me ((not that i really want that, but like i said above, it all goes round in a circle))) what he's done and said to me has scared me for life, and im never going to forgive him. now this isnt one of those teenage crazes, because normally the "hating your parents phase" lasts what one or two years? but i know this has lasted AT LEAST four years. so sinc i was AT LEAST 10 😖