social life

people...writing too much... will to read... diminishing... diminishing... ... gone 🙁

so I'll just skip here and there, ask misha if we're still kewl, down with the flow, buds, get a drink and forget it and stuff 😎 (oh look, I can act young too 😊 *hears back snapping* ow 🙁)

and cause Fire had the smallest post that had any on topic-ness in it:
for 14 year olds, some things do look important and devastating, it's only later, when you grow up and realise that you are still in a safe place, with (normally) a roof over your head, food on your plate, and hopefully two parents who love you (and no matter how you press it, they DO love you, they love eachother and created you as the result, you're the proof of their love, though some do their best to ruin that).

And everything outside that "safe circle" can be devastating for a young person, because they haven't had anything happening yet (normally that is) to something related in their safe circle... if that makes sense

yerssie baby read this SHORTish 😮 bit

"im saying stuff like having troubles with your friends, fighting with your parents, doing badly in school and always getting in trouble....which results to more fights with your parents....which makes you angry, so you dont wanna talk to anyone, so you go to school the next day in a pissy mood and noone will talk to you because you dont talk, and since your not talking to your parents or friends, your obviously not doing your work in class, which leads to the teachers yelling at you, and telling your parents and it just goes all around in a circle. and the one person you truly love in your family, who you never fight with, and have looked up to your whole life is never around, so youve got noone to talk to and things just get worse."

and THAT's when you go on KMC and talk to me 😊

and feel all better hug

my job here is done then 😊
*spreads wings and flies away*

but......but cry i cant live without you!

fear my mascara is running....oh my, my life is over *faints*

*crashes head first into floor; wings shattered*
*stands up*
quick! to the powder-room badgirl 😱

before anyone sees you 😱

and definitly you, not only the mascara is ugly here babe 😱

Originally posted by m!$hA
i feel that dr, you are getting at the point saying that "popular" people have it easy because theyre "well liked???"
you've obviously heard the saying "its whats on the inside that counts" i mean that doesnt only apply for looks no2 someone could seem happy on the outside, when on the inside their life is horrible! im not saying this is how my life is, i mean....all of us have pretended to be happy when theyre not, obviously, but ive read a lot, seen a lot of movies, and even known someone who this has applied to 😬 and its not always la-di-da-di-da being popular you know!? its not like popular people only cry when they break a nail 😬

You make a good point, and I also understand how somebody who acts happy on the outside can be kinda depressed on the inside... But at the same time, people who always have a pack of friends around themselves inherently HAVE to have it better than kids who have none at all. The kid who sits in the corner reading with nobody to talk to and nobody who can identify with him will nearly always be worse off than the kid who has a million friends, and probably at least a couple he can talk to if he really needs to get a load off his shoulders.

So I understand what you're saying, but at the same time, I really don't think you understand how much it sucks being bullied all the time... You can't truly understand it unless you've been there yourself. I was at a place where I had no friends, and couldn't talk to my parents about it either, because I didn't think they'd "get it". Hmm.... let's see here... my grades were failing, my parents wouldn't "get it", I had no friends, (which was made even worse by the fact that I had at one point had some, but they had stabbed me in the back and turned "to the dark side"😉, I was constantly being bullied and picked on, I was depressed into next Wednesday... Gee, I think I've had more problems at one point in my life than you have right now. So see, lots of "not popular" kids have just the same problems you do, and then some.

I'm not trying to ridicule your problems, all I'm saying is that others have much bigger problems than you. And I won't include myself in that group, at least I always had a roof over my head and enough food to eat.

Originally posted by m!$hA
i know youre probably going to find this selfish of me, but i would rather have health problems then emotional problems.

Originally posted by Darth Revan
You make a good point, and I also understand how somebody who acts happy on the outside can be kinda depressed on the inside... But at the same time, people who always have a pack of friends around themselves inherently HAVE to have it better than kids who have none at all. The kid who sits in the corner reading with nobody to talk to and nobody who can identify with him will nearly always be worse off than the kid who has a million friends, and probably at least a couple he can talk to if he really needs to get a load off his shoulders.

So I understand what you're saying, but at the same time, I really don't think you understand how much it sucks being bullied all the time... You can't truly understand it unless you've been there yourself. I was at a place where I had no friends, and couldn't talk to my parents about it either, because I didn't think they'd "get it". Hmm.... let's see here... my grades were failing, my parents wouldn't "get it", I had no friends, (which was made even worse by the fact that I had at one point had some, but they had stabbed me in the back and turned "to the dark side"😉, I was constantly being bullied and picked on, I was depressed into next Wednesday... Gee, I think I've had more problems at one point in my life than you have right now. So see, lots of "not popular" kids have just the same problems you do, and then some.

I'm not trying to ridicule your problems, all I'm saying is that others have much bigger problems than you. And I won't include myself in that group, at least I always had a roof over my head and enough food to eat.

Agreed...I know, I've dealt with that all through middle and high school. And I also agree with what Fire said about teenagers blowing small problems out of proportion...I know that even I tend to do that. But I've also had a lot of problems in my life, unrelated to school crap or friends being pissy, but big problems with my family. I don't exactly have the best family life, and to say that I don't get along with much of my family is a huge understatement. I'd really rather not go into all of that, though, because some of it's rather personal and I still don't like to talk about my family life too much.

im saying stuff like having troubles with your friends, fighting with your parents, doing badly in school and always getting in trouble....which results to more fights with your parents....which makes you angry, so you dont wanna talk to anyone, so you go to school the next day in a pissy mood and noone will talk to you because you dont talk, and since your not talking to your parents or friends, your obviously not doing your work in class, which leads to the teachers yelling at you, and telling your parents and it just goes all around in a circle. and the one person you truly love in your family, who you never fight with, and have looked up to your whole life is never around, so youve got noone to talk to and things just get worse.

Well Misha if you really hate your dad, which I doubt cause Hatred is a very strong word and I know ppl in far worse situations than what you wrote who don't hate their dad, then you are an exception to the rule.
However most teenagers with problems like the quote will be surprised of how trivial they look in 5-10 years from now trust me. (speaking from personal experience here)

Originally posted by Darth Revan
You make a good point, and I also understand how somebody who acts happy on the outside can be kinda depressed on the inside... But at the same time, people who always have a pack of friends around themselves inherently HAVE to have it better than kids who have none at all. The kid who sits in the corner reading with nobody to talk to and nobody who can identify with him will nearly always be worse off than the kid who has a million friends, and probably at least a couple he can talk to if he really needs to get a load off his shoulders.

So I understand what you're saying, but at the same time, I really don't think you understand how much it sucks being bullied all the time... You can't truly understand it unless you've been there yourself. I was at a place where I had no friends, and couldn't talk to my parents about it either, because I didn't think they'd "get it". Hmm.... let's see here... my grades were failing, my parents wouldn't "get it", I had no friends, (which was made even worse by the fact that I had at one point had some, but they had stabbed me in the back and turned "to the dark side"😉, I was constantly being bullied and picked on, I was depressed into next Wednesday... Gee, I think I've had more problems at one point in my life than you have right now. So see, lots of "not popular" kids have just the same problems you do, and then some.

I'm not trying to ridicule your problems, all I'm saying is that others have much bigger problems than you. And I won't include myself in that group, at least I always had a roof over my head and enough food to eat.

well i have never really been "bullied" but i've been picked on a few times 😬 and i really do know how horrible it is. i've been through everything at school really....being a loner, a popular person, being stuck in the middle ... all of that.

you see, when i was "bullied" it was different to when peeople asay to you "eeew you wear glasses your ugly" and stuff like that (not saying i think ppl who wear glasses are ugly....theyre actually very sexay droolio i myself even have reading glasses 😎 ) anyway, my point is that when i was "bullied" or whatever, yeah it was in a different way. all my life i've felt the pressure to go with the crowd. now im not that sort of person, which makes it worse....because my whole body and heart is telling me not to say "yeah i like that song too 😕 " when really i hate it, but my mind is saying "but if you dont like it, she wont like you" which i hate....normally i wont...in fact its like a 99% chance that i WILL say something i dont mean, like that song thing, but there still are the times when i do say it, and i get really annoyed at me.
im reasonably smart, but ive always felt that if i admitted to being smart, then my friends wouldnt like me, or theyd tease me or something!? my friends at the moment are restricting me to everything i do...including having fun, which is why i am changing schools.

uh i really dont think ive explained myself well 😕 but maybe you get my drift?

Originally posted by Storm
You don't want to trade your life with a 16 year old boy who doesn' t has a single chance on a future. He' s diagnosed with cancer. The verdict of the doctors has fallen, nor chemo nor an operation can save him. Instead of being haunted by the thought of what might have been if only... he is still trying to see the bright side of life and living the rest of his life to the fullest.

im saying that i would rather be him, and happy.............then being someone healthy, and unhappy.

in my oppinion, happiness is the key to life. which sometimes, that thought doesnt do me too well 😬 for example, sometimes ill be sitting in class, being the good girl i am angel_not when ill suddenly thing "why do i HAVE to sit here, listening to this old man droning on about NOTHING that has to do my life??" then ill do something stupid that i want to do and get into big trouble 😮

but yeah, i WOULD prefer to be someone who was dying, yet happy, then someone who was perfectly healthy, but depressed.

Originally posted by yerssot
and definitly you, not only the mascara is ugly here babe 😱

shocking how DARE you!?!?!?! its noy my faul im having a bad hair day weep

no, sorry... but I'm not awake 😖
do you mean that you go with the flow cause you're afraid to get picked on?

Originally posted by Fire

Well Misha if you really hate your dad, which I doubt cause Hatred is a very strong word and I know ppl in far worse situations than what you wrote who don't hate their dad, then you are an exception to the rule.
However most teenagers with problems like the quote will be surprised of how trivial they look in 5-10 years from now trust me. (speaking from personal experience here)

seriously fire, in the moment.....im not saying right now i can go and do it....but if i was having one of the usual fights with my dad that i have, and someone handed me a gun, i could kill him.
and im NOT one of those people who kill or anything. im completely against wars and killing and everything....infact i dont celebrate things like anzac day nd stuff (dunno if you guys know what that is, but in aussie we have a day with like a moments silence to praise the soldiers in the war or whatever) and im against that, because im not congratulating someone who's gone off and killed a whole heap of people.
and once again, this probably sounds really selfish of me and all but ... i dont think its right. and when people say to me "if they hadn't of fought, then you wouldnt be here today" but i mean...if i wasnt here, then its not like i would be like just a mind thinking "why oh why arent i born yet!?" so really i dont care 😬
anyways, my point being that i really do hate him. and yeah i guess i shouldnt be saying this over the net for many reasons....but im just stressing what im saying! 😬

wait a year or two, then things will change and you'll love him to bits 🙂

if i leave kmc before that, im going to come back here and tel you guys wether i love/hat my dad. if i havnt left, ill keep you updated 😉