Father Jailed for Smacking

banyey Quit The Biznitchin' AC...

Originally posted by Syren
✅ I think I came to the wrong conclusion about you 😬 How old are you?

15 years-old.

I've been bruised before! 🤪

But my dad did not usually hit me which is just as well as his hitting hard would have resulted in my being killed or concussed fear

I was kicked

Originally posted by BlackC@t
15 years-old.

Ah, well I'm 20 which might explain the reaction I had 😬

Just ride it out honey, things WILL get better hug

i've been slapped, and i've been beaten...

i don't believe i would hit my kids (assuming i had any, which i probably will) unless it was a last resort...

but i know the line not to cross...

Originally posted by Syren
Ah, well I'm 20 which might explain the reaction I had 😬

Just ride it out honey, things WILL get better hug

Thank you 😊

Originally posted by pr1983
i've been slapped, and i've been beaten...

i don't believe i would hit my kids (assuming i had any, which i probably will) unless it was a last resort...

but i know the line not to cross...

I couldn't have put it better.

Originally posted by dark1365
I couldn't have put it better.

thx 😮

i just think that you can try and reason with them most of the time, but when your three year old throws a tantrum in the supermarket cos they want the barney bubblebath, what are you supposed to do? a little slap will only show them that if they do that the next time they'll get a slap... most kids catch on extremely quickly, so i believe it has a time and a place...

✅ Appropriate action. Knowing where the boundaries are. Unfortunately, it's not instinctive and there's certainly no rule book. Who decides on the limits? Who has the final say on how hard to smack, when to smack, reasons and explanations?

Some parents confuse the role of parent and keeper though.

As Syren said, appropriate action.

-AC

"Some parents confuse the role of parent and keeper though."

That comment may lead some ignorant idiots to say, 'If you can't control yourself, get a dog.'

So, before you say that, bear in mind that it's RIDICULOUS AND MORONIC 😊

Originally posted by Syren
✅ Appropriate action. Knowing where the boundaries are. Unfortunately, it's not instinctive and there's certainly no rule book. Who decides on the limits? Who has the final say on how hard to smack, when to smack, reasons and explanations?

its up to the person... i have a horrible temper (like my parents)... and my first compulsion is to lash out... but i make sure i take a minute and breathe... then decide...

I think smacking to allful...talk to the child for sake!!!

Originally posted by Gisele
I think smacking to allful...talk to the child for sake!!!

when your three year old throws a tantrum in the supermarket cos they want the barney bubblebath, what are you supposed to do?