Originally posted by Bardock42
What kind of a stupid advise is that.......I guess you can't force this "love" but if you don't look for it chances are you might just miss it......
See that's your problem....it's not gonna fall in your lap when you go around calling people stupid all the time.... 😂
What I mean....and I know this to be true....is if your out hunting for it you usually don't find it....I didn't say just close your eyes and keep the blinders on....now that wouldn't be very smart would it.
It's true what they say...IT'S WHEN YOU LEAST EXPECT IT...
Originally posted by PVS
ask for advice and all you will recieve is pointless tired rhetoric.
*see previous posts*
love is the most irrational thing known to mankind, so no point in asking.
just hope you turn out to be one of the lucky ones...thats all you can do.good luck 🙂
You make me feel sad...........when even someone like you so emotional......
well i wasnt trying to be a doomsayer.
just saying that you cant dictate love.
some people will insist i'm wrong, but they are either
very luck in who they found, or are living a lie and are
setting themselves up for a tremendous let down.
if you really find yourself in love, you wont have a choice
in the matter anyway.
so no point in pondering.
edit: unless you're just lookin to get laid...THAT you can dictate 😛
Originally posted by PVS
well i wasnt trying to be a doomsayer.
just saying that you cant dictate love.
some people will insist i'm wrong, but they are either
very luck in who they found, or are living a lie and are
setting themselves up for a tremendous let down.if you really find yourself in love, you wont have a choice
in the matter anyway.
so no point in pondering.edit: unless you're just lookin to get laid...THAT you can dictate 😛
Originally posted by debbiejo
PVS has no love...........I'm gonna crycrybaby
He has too much....
"Love is one of the most irrational things"
"Just hope you turn out to be one of the lucky ones"
"Good Luck"
Way to emotional the guy.........get some Stoic Calmness
Originally posted by PVS
emotional? im as stoic as a vulcan right now buddy (at work and bored)
perhaps you sense a tone in my words that i am not giving?
just speaking the truth...nothing more 😛
Not your tone ...your words......that is so ...well not cool....maybe its true ...but I don'*t like to look at the world that way.....
not cool?
then i guess reality is 'not cool'.
but the harshest reality is if you lie to yourself and
find yourself living a lie. i've seen that far too often.
as for me, i think its positive to accept the irrationality of love.
if you keep an open mind, then you're chances of finding it are far greater.
think about it. you lie to yourself and convince yourself that you're in love,
and you end up letting your true life mate pass you by, cause you were busy
being 'positive'. now that would truly be sad.
if you have no capacity for faith and hope...then i guess my words may be viewed as dismal.
Well reality is not cool......
But first I don't know if Love is all that irrational.....I think it is explainable ...I am not sure if I could but I don't think it is immpossible...and saying it is the most irrational thing is overexagerating....
Now I don't know what you mean with living a lie..but if you mean you pretend that you are in love and try to convince yourself of that I agree...that doesn't really seem like a good way to live.....
And if you don't have an open mind but try to keep one you live against your nature with is surely less good than not finding your "Love"
I don't believe there is a "true Life mate" and really...DO YOU?
And I don't want people to be "positive" but rational...caklm...thinking....
Originally posted by Bardock42
You girl need to fins some stfu.......
Now now... no need.... (4 words that start with N... wooo)
Look... My advice would be to act normal... If you get rejected like a common cold to a person with a great immune system, then get over it... and carry on looking. No rush...
Originally posted by Bardock42
I don't believe there is a "true Life mate" and really...DO YOU?And I don't want people to be "positive" but rational...caklm...thinking....
well, i unintentionally implied that there is a single life mate for everyone. what i meant is that for everyone there is a small amount of potential mates in which they can fall in love and, more to the point STAY in love. its all about true compatibility, ability to accept/tolerate/love eachother's idiosyncrasies and non-winning characteristics.