I want a new boyfriend!!!

No one here has any good lovin.....see what happens.....FINE...I'll let you all be crotchety among yourselves.. 😇

Originally posted by debbiejo
No one here has any good lovin.....see what happens.....FINE...I'll let you all be crotchety among yourselves.. 😇

Originally posted by PVS

What happened to the Pic?

I'll buy a U...

Originally posted by The Omega
And for the guys/gents/men around here: How do you tell a guy these days that you're interested, without saying... well... "I am interested?".

(Steps back, takes a seat and waits for feedback)

well if the guy is a total stranger, you cannot just lasoo him off the kerb and into your house....Is this someone in particular at Work, A shop, A neighbour or a close friend ?

Has this guy seen you and is he in the same position as you (that is divorced )?

original posted by PVS
yes, you can definately use some stfu a nice big helping at that

Originally posted by finti
maybe you should try it your self ✅

A lot of stfu would be needed in this thread......just for me alone.....

Originally posted by finti
maybe you should try it your self ✅

maybe you should join me then ✅

*raises glass of stfu*

a toast! to hypocrisy

maybe you should join me then

*raises glass of stfu*

a toast! to hypocrisy

hail hail and cheers then for the joining and the glass........ the choice of toast you need to leave for the religious ones 😄

as for the topic I want a new boyfriend!!! well I dont 😉 😛

Originally posted by finti
as for the topic I want a new boyfriend!!! well I dont 😉 😛

no need to lie
you are among friends here 🙂

Not even PVS??????....I hear he's open.......

Originally posted by debbiejo
Not even PVS??????....I hear he's open.......

no need to lie you are among friends here

Not even PVS??????....I hear he's open.......

Originally posted by finti
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define open 😈 👿 [/B]

Like real wide..... 😂

Originally posted by debbiejo
Like real wide..... 😂

Originally posted by The Omega
I've got to thinking lately - being single again after 8 years of marriage.
One thing is about age-gaps between two people. How big should it be? Does it matter? My friends span in age from 22 to 58, and they all contribute with something when I see them.

What IS love?? I think I've kinda forgotten in the long battle of ending a totally unsatisfying relationship after so many years. Is it that sudden happiness in the heart when you hear his name? Or is that just a crush? Is it chatting for hours by sms? Can you be in love with two people at the same time??

Sex... Well, a funky game for adults, I know. But how important is that in a relationship?

And for the guys/gents/men around here: How do you tell a guy these days that you're interested, without saying... well... "I am interested?".

(Steps back, takes a seat and waits for feedback)

I'm going to attempt to answer your question while avoiding all the generic rheteric that is expected in a discussion like this.

First off, why even go back into a relationship so soon after ending such a long one? Time alone is good and necessary after ending a serious relationship. It's bad if you start getting dependant on relationships, this is when knockaround relationships start to happen (have one for a small period of time, end it, then jump into another one). It's bet to wait untill you really meet someone you truly enjoy being around before you attempt to get back into a relationship.

Now, if you have found this special person, then I'd suggest you just tell him, nothing wrong with being direct, makes things a whole lot easier. Though, you damn women seem to think that being direct isn't "romantic" or something and make things a big pain in the ass by beating around the bush 😛

Age gaps don't matter, unless you care about what people think.

I don't know what love is, no one does, it probably vary's from person to person. But, I'd say, love is just the feeling you get when you're around someone you truley enjoying being with. Simple as that.

Sex is important for a relationship, the end.

But, if you really really want a boyfriend, here's what you do.

1. Fly to California.

2. Call me when you arrive.

3. Come to my house

4. You can guess the rest. 😛

I wish you the best of luck, Omega.

Originally posted by The Omega
I've got to thinking lately - being single again after 8 years of marriage.
One thing is about age-gaps between two people. How big should it be? Does it matter? My friends span in age from 22 to 58, and they all contribute with something when I see them.

What IS love?? I think I've kinda forgotten in the long battle of ending a totally unsatisfying relationship after so many years. Is it that sudden happiness in the heart when you hear his name? Or is that just a crush? Is it chatting for hours by sms? Can you be in love with two people at the same time??

Sex... Well, a funky game for adults, I know. But how important is that in a relationship?

And for the guys/gents/men around here: How do you tell a guy these days that you're interested, without saying... well... "I am interested?".

(Steps back, takes a seat and waits for feedback)

I wouldn't get in a serious relationship just yet..you need time to heal and have a little fun after 8 years of marriage. flirt and date and just be your self and enjoy your new found freedom.

dating a bit will help you get a idea of what you really want from your next relationship and like others have said 'love' will just fall into place..you'll know it when it happens to you.

sex is important but after the thrill of the chase and then sex what is important is 'do you still feel the same about that person afterwards'? many people start to feel differently after awhile and they can see the real person without the 'rose colored glasses'.

I think age is somewhat important..for reasons lil said. interest around the same age bracket will cement a relationship more after the sex. 🙂

Originally posted by The Omega
I've got to thinking lately - being single again after 8 years of marriage.
One thing is about age-gaps between two people. How big should it be? Does it matter? My friends span in age from 22 to 58, and they all contribute with something when I see them.

What IS love?? I think I've kinda forgotten in the long battle of ending a totally unsatisfying relationship after so many years. Is it that sudden happiness in the heart when you hear his name? Or is that just a crush? Is it chatting for hours by sms? Can you be in love with two people at the same time??

Sex... Well, a funky game for adults, I know. But how important is that in a relationship?

And for the guys/gents/men around here: How do you tell a guy these days that you're interested, without saying... well... "I am interested?".

(Steps back, takes a seat and waits for feedback)

What IS love? I can't answer that question. Every time I've loved someone it has been for different reasons than I loved the last guy. I've had "love" that started instantly from across the room and I've had "love" that took time and developed.

Sex is very important. At least it is to me. Good sex is an excellent foundation, but a relationship has to have more than just great sex... great sex by the way is nothing less than headboard breaking, hair pulling, sweat flying that culminates is a crescendo of ecstasy and body fluids. Accept no substitutes.

As for how to approach a guy, well that depends on the situation. Is there a particular guy you're speaking about in this instance? If so, then what is the situation?