Would the fact that, the girl you wanted badly had a boyfriend, stop you?

Started by FistOfThe North6 pages

Originally posted by Capt_Fantastic
Wow, that was kinda off.

Look, I tried to be helpful.

And if the "you of all people" comment is supposed to hurt, me being gay

Odds are, you'll sit there with your pud in your hand, wishing. Just do something, or don't!

You've tried to be helpful? by telling my to stay with a hard on and move on cause, Odds are, you'll sit there with your pud in your hand, wishing..haha please..thats helpful.

I wasn't trying to hurtful, just saying it like it is.

So put you magic (ball) away, you can't tell what the odds are. I came looking for advice. not degradations. "Yes or no will do" 3p0, and if you have other useful advice rather than telling me to stick with my hard on and basically go f*** myself then...you know what..free speech do what you want. 🙂

Originally posted by PVS
see? needy kids come to kmc posting threads in the GDF looking for advice. you take the time to give them the most sound and sane advice possible. and they say "you all dont know what you're talking about".

well why the f*** exactly did you ask then?

Needy kids huh. You've been ridiculously upset with me for some reason for a while now. haha good.

If someone saying "If you just have a hard-on for her, let it go. Move on" is the most sound and sane advice possible then you need to go to the mall. kid. or what ever your name is.

😆

Originally posted by FistOfThe North
You've tried to be helpful? by telling my to stay with a hard on and move on cause, Odds are, you'll sit there with your pud in your hand, wishing..haha please..thats helpful.

I wasn't trying to hurtful, just saying it like it is.

So put you magic (ball) away, you can't tell what the odds are. I came looking for advice. not degradations. "Yes or no will do" 3p0, and if you have other useful advice rather than telling me to stick with my hard on and basically go f*** myself then...you know what..free speech do what you want. 🙂

So, the half-dozen posts before that were what? For my health? Please. Do something, or sit here and cry over it...

Originally posted by Capt_Fantastic
So, the half-dozen posts before that were what? For my health? Please. Do something, or sit here and cry over it...

Who's crying. Your the one who seems upset haha. I've been said I've made my mind up a while ago. That I'm gonna go for it. You sound unreasonably frustrated. 😆

I'm happy. Today's a red letter day.

🙂

Originally posted by FistOfThe North
Who's crying. Your the one who seems upset haha. I've been said I've made my mind up a while ago. That I'm gonna go for it. You sound unreasonably frustrated. 😆

I'm happy. Today's a red letter day.

🙂

right...

Originally posted by FistOfThe North
If someone saying "If you just have a hard-on for her, let it go. Move on" is the most sound and sane advice possible then you need to go to the mall. kid. or what ever your name is.

😆

that made no sense at all.
well, judging by your maturity level,
you have about as much of a chance of getting with any girl
as i have of getting with jessica alba. so i hope you and your
hand find bliss together

if you cant accept any sound advice you ask for,
just because you dont like the tone of the truth, thats your deal.
but please dont post any more threads like this, since if you do
not genuinely seek the wisdom of others, then you are just
whoring for attention.

Originally posted by FistOfThe North
If someone saying "If you just have a hard-on for her, let it go. Move on" is the most sound and sane advice possible then you need to go to the mall. kid. or what ever your name is.

😆

Go to the mall? Why? Once again I think I have lost something in the translation.

Still, I actually think that is quite sound advice - if that were/is simply the case then yeah, move on. I mean, we go through life and there will be times we might want things, even people - but sometimes you just need to look at the situation and say, well, I don't really have a great reason for wanting it, or I know I can't have it, so lets just move on.

Yes, there are plenty of times when this doesn't apply, but really, I still think it sounds a bit off if the case was simply lust, "having a hard on for her" and being motivated by such trying to break up a relationship. Though it must be said a girl is not just a bit of meat, or a sex object, in such a position I would think of her feelings and the like as well as my own.

Originally posted by FistOfThe North
I came looking for advice. not degradations. "Yes or no will do" 3p0, and if you have other useful advice rather than telling me to stick with my hard on and basically go f*** myself then...you know what..free speech do what you want. 🙂

As I have been reading this thread through (what I won't do to avoid work) I have to say, "Fist, if you can't take it, don't post".

If you actually are going to be that sensitive to what people say about your personal life, then don't post such personal things. Capt made a good point. If you don't like how he worded it, that's fine, but don't go ripping when you asked for it.

Stop behaving like a child. Either tell the girl you like her and live with the consequences, or go about your life having never told her. I don't really care either way.

That fact that you asked such a question to a bunch of people who neither know you nor the situation is silly. The fact that you get your back up when people make comments you don't like regarding your situation shows that you really haven't been visiting the GDF long enough to know what's coming around the corner whrn you ask such a question.

Originally posted by Imperial_Samura
Go to the mall? Why? Once again I think I have lost something in the translation.

Still, I actually think that is quite sound advice - if that were/is simply the case then yeah, move on. I mean, we go through life and there will be times we might want things, even people - but sometimes you just need to look at the situation and say, well, I don't really have a great reason for wanting it, or I know I can't have it, so lets just move on.

Yes, there are plenty of times when this doesn't apply, but really, I still think it sounds a bit off if the case was simply lust, "having a hard on for her" and being motivated by such trying to break up a relationship. Though it must be said a girl is not just a bit of meat, or a sex object, in such a position I would think of her feelings and the like as well as my own.

"Go to the mall" wasn't literal it was a refrain. Like when a girls father just brushes his annoying daughter off by giving her $100 and telling her to "Go to the mall" cause she being a pest. It's like a shoo. 🙂

It's not the case, though. I've made up my mind. I don't want her to only have sex with her. I like the chick. She's everything a dude can want. Girls are easy to get, there a dime a dozen here in Boston. But she's quality. Not a bit of meat, or a sex object . really.

I feel confident. 😄

wow thats great 😐 i'm proud of ya
btw you lost the attention of anyone who gave a shit.

Originally posted by KharmaDog
As I have been reading this thread through (what I won't do to avoid work) I have to say, "Fist, if you can't take it, don't post".

If you actually are going to be that sensitive to what people say about your personal life, then don't post such personal things. Capt made a good point. If you don't like how he worded it, that's fine, but don't go ripping when you asked for it.

Stop behaving like a child. Either tell the girl you like her and live with the consequences, or go about your life having never told her. I don't really care either way.

That fact that you asked such a question to a bunch of people who neither know you nor the situation is silly. The fact that you get your back up when people make comments you don't like regarding your situation shows that you really haven't been visiting the GDF long enough to know what's coming around the corner whrn you ask such a question.

I mainly "get my back up" because my question isn't answered directly. Cause it is a yes or no question after all. Not what should I do. And I mean it's only human nature to bite back if attacked. It's instinctive for me. I'm reflective thats all. What ever light is shone upon me I reflect back. Nothing wrong with that, doggy 🙂

Stop behaving like a child? haha You stop understanding what you read like a child. What do you mean "either tell the girl you like her and live with the consequences" I've been made up my mind. Didn't you say you read this thread or were you thinking about how to make your "(what I won't do to avoid work)" joke sound more humorous? 🙂

Na. I bite back. No harm. Where would be the fun in not doing so?
😄

Originally posted by FistOfThe North
I mainly "get my back up" because my question isn't answered directly. Cause it is a yes or no question after all. Not what should I do. And I mean it's only human nature to bite back if attacked. It's instinctive for me. I'm reflective thats all. What ever light is shone upon me I reflect back. Nothing wrong with that, doggy 🙂

So badically you are saying that you are an immature putz who reacts without thinking? Excellent self appraisal.

Originally posted by FistOfThe North
Stop behaving like a child? haha You stop understanding what you read like a child.
😑

Originally posted by FistOfThe North
What do you mean "either tell the girl you like her and live with the consequences" I've been made up my mind. Didn't you say you read this thread or were you thinking about how to make your "(what I won't do to avoid work)" joke sound more humorous? 🙂

Attempt at humour? As PVS would say...A SWING AND A MISS.

Originally posted by FistOfThe North
Na. I bite back. No harm. Where would be the fun in not doing so?
😄

Well, knowing when to bite back would be a start. Being able to do so effectively with humour, intelligence or both would be better. And is it really that much fun making yourself look like a complete moron?

Originally posted by KharmaDog
So badically you are saying that you are an immature putz who reacts without thinking? Excellent self appraisal.

😑

Attempt at humour? As PVS would say...A SWING AND A MISS.

Well, knowing when to bite back would be a start. Being able to do so effectively with humour, intelligence or both would be better. And is it really that much fun making yourself look like a complete moron?

Wow all the name calling makes it all worth the while. 😄 . I love it. I'd name call too but don't feel like stooping just yet.

Oh. and i wasn't being humorous, it was actually serious.

Making fun of myself. i had a hard time find that . I'll just say it's manufactured manure coming from you.

This post has gotten out of wing, well I did end it a while back saying Ive got my mind made up. lol but anyway. Your turn. 😄

Originally posted by PVS
wow thats great 😐 i'm proud of ya
btw you lost the attention of anyone who gave a shit.

lol apparently not. p whatever..

😄

Originally posted by FistOfThe North
Wow all the name calling makes it all worth the while. 😄 . I love it. I'd name call too but don't feel like stooping just yet.

Oh. and i wasn't being humorous, it was actually serious.

Making fun of myself. i had a hard time find that . I'll just say it's manufactured manure coming from you.

This post has gotten out of wing, well I did end it a while back saying Ive got my mind made up. lol but anyway. Your turn. 😄

Posting a comment followed by a smilie does not make it true. Unless of course you are using it as a signal to other members that you are being whimsical, in that case, it really doesn't work either.

Originally posted by KharmaDog
Posting a comment followed by a smilie does not make it true. Unless of course you are using it as a signal to other members that you are being whimsical, in that case, it really doesn't work either.

My writing "Wow all the name calling makes it all worth the while" isn't true? What, to you, or..?

Cause I believe it is. whimsical or not.

"😄 "

Originally posted by PVS
... i hope you and your
hand find bliss together

Is THAT why he's called FISTofthenorth?

Originally posted by Bushwacker
Is THAT why he's called FISTofthenorth?

lmao, your the one with the name "wacker"..

And thats probably your hand in the pic signaling another guy, showing him interest.

😆

Originally posted by Bushwacker
Is THAT why he's called FISTofthenorth?

😂

say. no. more.

Originally posted by FistOfThe North
lmao, your the one with the name "wacker"..

😆