NE way, JANUS before you asked me what Oxymorons exist in real life and I never got back to you on that subject:
Here's a few:
1) The Fact that you can be Ugly but Sexy at the same time: Let me explain using two people as examples: You can lack beauty, but still have sex appeal, just like you can lack sex appeal but still have physical beauty.
Ex: Nick Lachey...In my opinion he is a gorgeous guy and fits every popular standard in terms of "hottie" that I can think of. However, i do not find him sexy at all. He's too clean lookn, he only has his pretty looks.....he's easy on the eyes, but not to quick on the crotch...if u know what i mean. He is physically beautiful, but he lacks sex appeal....i mean, he has, but very little.
Johnny Knoxville....not that great lookn a guy, his face looks busted a lot, he's kinda skinny, and he grosses me out a lot on his show. However, he's sexy as hell. He has that bad-boy, dirty guy charisma. His look alone is not too appealing, but the TOTAL package is sexy as hell.
I'll expand if I confused you on that point.
2)A Dog's Leash...both a symbol of control AND freedom: My Labridor Jeter LOVES his leash....when i grab it, he knows it means he's going out for a nice long walk, away from home. To him it is most likely a symbol of escape, of routine freedom, he knows he will be outside. TO ME it is a symbol of control...a way to keep my dog where I need him. How ironic, that to me it is nothing more than a control tool, but to him it symbolizes the freedom of going out for a walk (not to mention when we get to a certain area, i let him off the leash, and he knows that)
3) All Irony in General - Irony occurs in real life very frequently, there is no way to deny this. Are not Ironic situations a more complicated version of an oxymoron ?