Gay marriages-yes or no?

Started by Redwolf29 pages

Originally posted by PVS
so now they have no right to exist, they CHOOSE to be gay, just because you said so, and you are special because you "leave them alone". thank you for proving my point:

if everyone of your state of intolerant mind were to suddenly die of a massive coronary, we would have instant utopia. and then charlie chaplan would look down from heaven and smile 🙂

A right to exist??? Since when is not allowing homosexauls to marry denying their right to exist? You misunderstand my argument. When I say "choose" the lifestyle I don't mean they choose that lifestyle like choosing what to wear to work.

It's more along the lines of pychological.

Originally posted by OhILuvHP
Wow alright. I must say, very persuading argument. But I do NOT see gay/lesbian relationships as something someone would want to put on themselves. Why would people choose to live that way and go through everything that gay people have had to go through? Personally, i would think it is a burden to be gay, though i see nothing wrong with it. With all the crap the government and the rest of the world has agains homosexuals, why would they choose that life. I think they are born liking the same sex (but it is not a disease or anything) just like you and i are born to find the opposite sex attractive.

I believe many factors can lead someone to the homosexual lifestyle. It's a choice is the loosest sense. I don't believe one day a guy or girl woke up and "decided" to be gay. Like I said many factors can lead someone to "believe" they are gay.

like i said before, why would they choose that lifestyle when they get crap from all the people like you (not saying its bad, you are just giving your opinion)

Originally posted by OhILuvHP
like i said before, why would they choose that lifestyle when they get crap from all the people like you (not saying its bad, you are just giving your opinion)

I believe many factors can lead someone to the homosexual lifestyle. It's a choice is the loosest sense. I don't believe one day a guy or girl woke up and "decided" to be gay. Like I said many factors can lead someone to "believe" they are gay.

Originally posted by Redwolf
You don't have the right to demand recognition for your CHOICE in life. You CHOOSE to live a deviant lifestyle, so stop demanding we all see it as "normal". It's NOT. I'm sick to death of every moron with a cause demanding that we recognize a choice and accept it.

they do not deserve to be recognised as anything more than an abomination. thats what you suggest. its beyond marraige and well into the argument of should we allow them to simply be. you, in your good graces [/sarcasm] have stated that you are willing to allow them to exist, just so long as they act straight and dont express any affection toward the one that they love where anyone can see. what a guy 👆

Originally posted by Redwolf
I believe many factors can lead someone to the homosexual lifestyle. It's a choice is the loosest sense. I don't believe one day a guy or girl woke up and "decided" to be gay. Like I said many factors can lead someone to "believe" they are gay.

So you say. But what type of factors would lead an ordinary person to find the same sex attractive?

Originally posted by PVS
you cannot conclude that your theory on choice is correct based on the lack of concrete proof of genetics, an entirely elusive field of study, especially when dealing with psychological traits based on genetics. if i have to explain that to you then there is no point in continuing this conversation.
Originally posted by PVS
they do not deserve to be recognised as anything more than an abomination. thats what you suggest. its beyond marraige and well into the argument of should we allow them to simply be. you, in your good graces [/sarcasm] have stated that you are willing to allow them to exist, just so long as they act straight and dont express any affection toward the one that they love where anyone can see. what a guy 👆

Bull....you're trying to make me sound like I feel homosexuals are a lower form of humans. I don't feel that way, I completely disagree with the lifestyle sure, and yes I do feel it is sick. Homosexuals can exist, they can show affection for each other, I just thinks it's sick. I'm not implying they should "act" straight around me 🙄

I don't care what an individual does in their own bedroom. I also feel gay marriage should NOT be legal as I stated the reasons in my first post. Again since when is not allowing homosexauls to marry denying their right to exist?

Originally posted by Redwolf
I'm not implying they should "act" straight around me 🙄
Originally posted by Redwolf
I don't care what an individual does in their own bedroom but KEEP IT OUT OF MY FACE.

*double post*

Originally posted by OhILuvHP
So you say. But what type of factors would lead an ordinary person to find the same sex attractive?

Plenty of info at this site:

http://www.narth.com/index.html

Originally posted by PVS

I'm talking about shoving the viewpoint that "being gay is normal" when I refer to "in my face".

Originally posted by Redwolf
Plenty of info at this site:

http://www.narth.com/index.html

😂 national association for research and therapy of homosexuality? 😂

way to find an objective source 👆

Originally posted by PVS
😂 national association for research and therapy of homosexuality? 😂

way to find an objective source 👆

I suspected you reply with something like that. Okay what's your sources? What would you consider an objective source?

Originally posted by Redwolf
I suspected you reply with something like that. Okay what's your sources? What would you consider an objective source?

did i say i have one? no i didnt. but then again i'm not eclipsed from reality
by my own ego to the point that whatever i believe is thus proven fact.
so my answer: i dont know whether it is chosen or genetic.

Originally posted by PVS
did i say i have one? no i didnt. but then again i'm not eclipsed from reality
by my own ego to the point that whatever i believe is thus proven fact.
so my answer: i dont know whether it is chosen or genetic.

I'm not ecllipsed from reality by my own ego. I believe what I believe because of the evidence out there. If you have evidence that:

-Shows homosexuality is genetic and unchangelable, fine lets see it.

You say you don't know whether homosexuality is chosen or genetic, yet every reply to me seems to indicate you've made the choice. That homosexuality is genetic.

quick little thing...

I've just been reading through a few of the debates regarding homosexuality, and a lot of people seem to be saying that because it's a 'choice' then it can be condemned. So I just want one person, straight, gay or whatever, to give me one example of when they've CHOSEN to fall in love with someone. Because after reading some of these opinions, it would seem it happens all the time.

off this website:
http://allphilosophy.com/topic/show/2113

your only source of "evidence" is a site which is dedicated to proving that homosexuality is chosen. thats the source for all their funds and motivation for study: to prove what they want to be true. its a crap source.

example: you can browse and find white supremacist sites which try to prove that anyone who is not white is a subhuman animal. is that proof? why do i have to explain this to you? are you whob?

exactly. I do not believe there is any website or source that can prove how people feel. Although i gave a small portion of a website, how are we supposed to know? How can straight men and women put out answers for people? They only say that to make it seem as though there beliefs are true. There is a huge barrier there. It goes along with the age old problem of fearing what you dont understand. Now i know that really isnt the case right here, but it seems that people are making assumptions when they dont really know. Dont you think that really only those who are homosexual know how they "became" gay/lesbian. really, who are we do decide?

Originally posted by PVS
besides, john deere is the industry leader in quality and reliability. shame on you for suggesting otherwise

When you mention John Deere being an industry leader, I assume you mean in the homosexual industry. The White Party, a huge party held in honour of homosexual diversity and openess every year, has taken place on the estate of the founder of the company many times.

Originally posted by Redwolf
Nope I don't support gay marriage.

Quite frankly, as hard and as often as they try, Gays have yet to provide definitive proof that their sexual orientation is a natural occurence.

That's a bit of a non-argument. Natural or not, it's effect on the rest of the population is at the heart of the matter. Not your bias.

Originally posted by Redwolf
They have provided studies with partial evidence mixed with a lot of speculation, but no conclusive proof. Many people say well if they love someone why can't they get married? It's a slippery slope if you hold that view. There are people out there that "love" animals and are into beastiality. What if NAMBLA members want to marry an underaged child because they "love" them?

The slippery slope argument is a sloppy one. It's irresponsible in its accusation. Was it a slippery slope to allow black people to vote, or women? Has it lead to social decay? I'm sure from your perspective the answer is yes. Was it a slippery slope when the law provided for the illeagal nature of inbreeding or cousins to marry? How about interracial marriage? Perhaps in your opinion is was. However the laws of this country are in place for a reason...to provide reasonable freedoms and protect its citizens. If a 50 year old man wants to marry a 14 year old boy, then we can all reasonably say that it is out of line. However, what about the golden days of segregation and gender descrimination? The good old days when a 50 year old man was allowed to marry a 14 year old girl? She had no say, and the 14 year old boy in the converse situation is no different than the 14 year old girl, no matter how much he might agree. It isn't his descision...like the 14 year old girl...he has parents that would have to allow it. Whay can a man have kiddie porn on his computer and get sentenced to decades in prision but the female school teacher that has sex with a 14 year old student is hard pressed to get any significant prision time at all? If there was a North American Woman Boy Love Association, you would have been lobbying for them to be written into the laws of the country? The matter here is one of descrimination, and not just your brand of ignorant one mindedness...but one of writing your bigotry into the constitutional law of the United States of America.

Originally posted by Redwolf
They can already do anything a married couple can do by power of attorney. EVERYTHING. We don't care what they do in their private lives, but attaching a legal binding marriage to it would do a few things that to me would be negative.

1. They could legally adopt children. A child is best raised by a man and a woman. It teaches them how to deal with the opposite sexes. No matter how good you think you are at it, a man and a man cannot teach a child to be a well rounded individual. They will suffer because of it, much the same as single parent homes that are filling our jails. Don't we have enough problems without creating more?

The scientific evidence is stacked against you. If you think your father taught you how to interact with the opposite sex, you would be mistaken. He taught you how to interact with a partner. Enlighten us to the point in time your father took you on his knee and said "Johnny, as a male, you are attracted to the female of our species. Also, you should consider them beneathe you and the gender to be treated as too weak to make descisions, own land, vote, get divorced, etc." Conversely, point out to me the moment in time my father took me on his knee and said "With you David, we've decided to try a little something different. With you, we're going to teach you to be gay...to be emotionally and physically attracted to the same sex. You know, just for shits and giggles" Didn't happen. Also, in most American states, gay adoption is illegal.

Originally posted by Redwolf
2. It would open the door for other adults to choose what their definition of marriage is. Is it right for a man to marry 4 women? How about a man to marry his sister? His niece? 1st cousin? CHILDREN? Blurring the lines of "normal behavior" is what these folks are after for the most part in my view.

Allow them to define their marriage how? Because it isn't writtten in the law?

Originally posted by Redwolf
I don't care what an individual does in their own bedroom but KEEP IT OUT OF MY FACE. You don't have the right to demand recognition for your CHOICE in life. You CHOOSE to live a deviant lifestyle, so stop demanding we all see it as "normal". It's NOT. I'm sick to death of every moron with a cause demanding that we recognize a choice and accept it. Anything short makes you a "homophobe", "racist", etc. You know what? If I see a gay couple holding hands it makes me sick. I leave them alone because it's their choice, but I will not accept their choice as "normal". Do what you want but don't keep insisting that it's your right for us to recognize it as normal.

Then keep your straight relationship in the bedroom. When I see a straight couple holding hands, I resent them. And that's really what your kind of person enjoys. You enjoy the envy that so many gay people feel about your ability to walk around in public without the fear of having the back of your head bashed in. I don't give a shit if you recognize me as normal. Your validation is irrelevent to me. However, know the consequences of your actions and we'll both be able to walk past each other on the street without confrontation. You seem to think that gay people should know and keep their place in YOUR world. How arrogant. I can assure you there is some aspect of your existence that at some point in this country was considered illgal or abnormal. You just don't have the balls to mention it in public...much less the knowledge of history to know it was "wrong" at some point.