What's it like to be White person?

Started by D-Double24 pages
Originally posted by Kinneary
I'm pretty sure I never said we were all treated equally. I believe what I said was that if we all stopped focusing on it so much, things would be a lot better. I'm not sure though. Would you care to check for me?

You said...

"White people are no longer privileged. We are no longer special. We get no benefits."

... sounds like you're saying everyone is treated equally.


Really? Because I'm pretty sure that whites aren't the richest race in America. Perhaps you'd like to do some of your own research and them tell me about how whites are the haves in this country.

I'll give you a hint, though. The richest race in this country is the one that doesn't complain about the evils of the white man all the time. It's the one that understands that in the past things were pretty crappy for them, but now through hard work and education they can have any life for themselves they want. The same formula the white man uses for his success.

Once you've actually delved further into this topic than just listening to Malcom X speeches and Jesse Jackson rhetoric, we can perhaps have a more informed conversation.

I have been looking for these statistics for about a week now. If you have this information, it would be more productive to enlighten me instead of posting riddles and condescending.

My views are my own and have little to do with Malcom X and hardly anything to do with Jesse jackson. You are assuming alot about me. If you want to have an informed, intelligent conversation it would help to leave out ego and bravado.

So wait, reperations have? And why? The white slave-owning families were the minority in the south. Many of the whites alive today weren't even here when slavery was going on. And many of the white families alive today, I'd say probably most of them, were on the side of the north and gave their blood so that blacks COULD be free. Why should I have to pay reparations when I didn't have anything to do with slavery? When my family didn't even get to this country until 1908? When, even when they got here, they were Irish Catholics and were also discriminated against and hounded by organizations such as the Ku Klux Klan?

And let me ask you, what is your plan to 'fix blacks'?

Once again, I'm going to say this. Blacks being unequal is a CLASS issue, not a racial one. Coming out of slavery, many blacks were not given the same opportunities and have felt those effects even to today. But then, many poor whites have also felt the same effects of discrimination early in the nation's history. They've also been caught in the same lower class spiral that some blacks have. So, my question again, why are poor blacks better than poor whites? Why do poor blacks deserve more opportunities to advance than poor whites? Isn't this discrimination?

Red: Not the same...

First of all, it seems you have something against black people. Or something against black people who speak their mind. Or something against this particular black person. In this thread I've been addressing issues of all people of color and only identified myself as black when asked if I was proud of who I am.

Second, it's not like black people were sitting on the side lines during the civil war. They were always on the front lines and the first to die for their freedom. Poor blacks are not better than poor whites. I feel poor blacks should be presented with more opportunity because (you guessed it) I feel poor whites are automatically presented with more opportunity because of their color.

Third, my almighty plan to "fix blacks" is : better education, community development, an open dialogue with all races, hard work, black people rising up, being heard, and not allowing the government (and society) to push them aside and forget about them.


I have a better question. When have we ever focused on it at all? I believe we just straight to Affirmitive Action. We skipped the sensible answer and went straight for the one that sounded better - the one that was more appealing to minorities and the guilty white consiounce.

I was born into an upper middle class family. My parents brought home around 150k a year, and that was in South Carolina, one of the cheapest states to live in, so you can imagine how well off we were. Why, might I ask you, is that? Why was my family well off? Because we were white? No. My grandfathers and mothers on both sides were dirt poor. They lived in Queens and Philly in a small house with 4 brothers (both of my parents) and my dad even dropped out of high school at 16. So how did they pull themselves up from this and turn their lives around? They joined the military, went back to school, got their Bach degrees, shopped around for the best jobs, and spent their money wisely. They didn't do well because they were white. They did well because they weren't waiting for reparations. They didn't blame anyone for their being poor. They just recognized their situation, dealt with it, and moved on with their lives.

Which is what poor blacks should do.

Blue: Exactly my point. Affirmative action may not be the answer, but it's one of the only realistic solutions presented. I have a problem with this lack of focus.

Red: Congratulations...

And congratulations again on your family's success and kudos on their hard work. This is exactly what people of color should do.

I'm simply saying (whether you admit or realize it) they would have an easier time achieving this success than people of color would.


Why? Because you see jokes about race on TV? Because sometimes white people talk down to you? Because sometimes you get excluded? What makes you think that I don't feel the same thing? And even if I didn't, you're still just making excuses. Be your own person.

Again, you are making alot of assumptions on the way I've come to my reasoning. My way of looking at things have come from many years of experience. I don't think I've made one excuse for anything in this thread. I am my own person. And by the way that you're speaking to me, I'll ask you not to tell me what to do.


No, things would not stay the same. I think you'll find that many of the successful blacks in your community have that attitude. I suggest speaking with them.

I suggest you stop assuming things about me. I have spoken with many successful black people and they all have said the same thing...

"It will always be harder for you to be successful than white people. So (as a black man) you have to work that much harder to succeed. "

- Business Owners
- Professor
- Doctor

It's not as bad as it was 50 years ago, but its still not equal.

It's amazingly better. We've made alot of progress (as humans).

... and I'm so thankful to those who struggled so I can be as free as I am now.

Sometimes I see an old black person and I just want to shake their hand or salute or something.

Originally posted by D-Double
[B]You said...

"White people are no longer privileged. We are no longer special. We get no benefits."

... sounds like you're saying everyone is treated equally.


Then I suggest you stop reading what you want to read and read what I write. We aren't priveleged and we don't get benefits for being white. I'd suggest you look at the law to see which race comes out on top.

I have been looking for these statistics for about a week now. If you have this information, it would be more productive to enlighten me instead of posting riddles and condescending.

Okay. Asians are the highest earning race in America.

My views are my own and have little to do with Malcom X and hardly anything to do with Jesse jackson. You are assuming alot about me. If you want to have an informed, intelligent conversation it would help to leave out ego and bravado.

Your views, from what I can surmise, focus around the white man holding the black man down and that even today the same thing is happening in America with the government doing little to combat it.

Which is the same as Jesse Jackson's message.

First of all, it seems you have something against black people. Or something against black people who speak their mind. Or something against this particular black person.

I was waiting for someone to accuse me of being racist for my views. Listen up buddy, my brother is black. Most of my friends are black. I have only maybe 3 white friends here.

Second, it's not like black people were sitting on the side lines during the civil war. They were always on the front lines and the first to die for their freedom. Poor blacks are not better than poor whites. I feel poor blacks should be presented with more opportunity because (you guessed it) I feel poor whites are automatically presented with more opportunity because of their color.

Which has nothing to do with the fact that whites died right along side of blacks. And how are poor whites presented with more opportunities? Simply because they're white? And what do you base this off of?

Third, my almighty plan to "fix blacks" is : better education, community development, an open dialogue with all races, hard work, black people rising up, being heard, and not allowing the government (and society) to push them aside and forget about them.

Which sounds nice. But it's not a plan. Those are goals.

Exactly my point. Affirmative action may not be the answer, but it's one of the only realistic solutions presented. I have a problem with this lack of focus.

One of the only realistic solutions? To what? Making blacks richer? Like it or not, Affirmitive Action is racism. And blacks being poor is not a race issue. It's a class issue. We need to focus on raising the poor out of poverty. Not blacks.

And congratulations again on your family's success and kudos on their hard work. This is exactly what people of color should do.

I'm simply saying (whether you admit or realize it) they would have an easier time achieving this success than people of color would.


What are you basing this off of? My dad paid for his college through Tuition Assistance from the US Navy and from his GI Bill. My mother paid for hers through TA from the US Marine Corps and her GI Bill. How do they have an easier time than blacks?

Again, you are making alot of assumptions on the way I've come to my reasoning. My way of looking at things have come from many years of experience. I don't think I've made one excuse for anything in this thread. I am my own person. And by the way that you're speaking to me, I'll ask you not to tell me what to do.

Okay. Let me rephrase 'Why? Because you see jokes about race on TV? Because sometimes white people talk down to you? Because sometimes you get excluded?' into just 'Why?'

I suggest you stop assuming things about me. I have spoken with many successful black people and they all have said the same thing...

"It will always be harder for you to be successful than white people. So (as a black man) you have to work that much harder to succeed. "

- Business Owners
- Professor
- Doctor


Which doesn't address what my statement was. "If people would stop making such a big deal about it then maybe we could move the hell on with our lives. "

Originally posted by D-Double
I could see it like that too...

... but then I see who has the highest status and most wealth.

Well i'm as pasty white as they come, and i have no priveleges... 🙁

the 50 year old guys in boardrooms will soon be a thing of the past... its a throwback to another generation...

my generation (the ones who are irish and white, anyway) sees things very differently... and we're not all as priveleged (at least over here), as some would think...

me? im unemployed... why? because the government and companies favour immigrants... companies know they can pay them less, so they employ them, i cant get a job in a corner shop, because they know theyd have to pay me the minimum wage... ive tried everything, i cant get into good jobs because they say i have no experience (yet i can do the job with my eyes closed, sometimes literally), and i cant get the bad jobs because companies know that if i was treated unfairly id stand up to them...

people whine about their being too many immigrants, when its the governments fault for allowing shit like this to happen...

i do not, nor have i ever begrudged someone a job that they are willing to work hard in...

i just dont see why i cant have one... but i happen to be a young, white, heterosexual male... discrimination doesnt apply to me no matter how much it happens to me... 😬

not to repeat myself, but ive said this before... and if people dont agree then thats fair enough...

a 20 year old straight, white guy goes for a job interview... in the waiting room there is a black guy, a woman and an openly gay man (cos there are guys were you just know, its about as subtle as a sledgehammer 😛). They're all equally qualified and reasonably pleasant people. Now, if the white guy gets the job, the other three could sue for discrimination and probably have a decent case...

could the sraight white guy? no, because theres still the perception that its a white mans world...

yeah, if your a 50 year old oil tycoon from texas...

btw, Pr. I'm not trying to one-up you. You make a good point.

I know, and if i come accross as trying to get one up on you i apologise... 🙂

... my bad. blushing

😛

apologies for the rant...

Originally posted by pr1983

people whine about their being too many immigrants, when its the governments fault for allowing shit like this to happen...

One of the key logical errors of racists.

Well the US IS the melting pot........ 🙄

Originally posted by debbiejo
Well the US IS the melting pot........ 🙄

I once heard that it would be better compared to a mosaic.

Originally posted by D-Double

If the two applicants are of the same qualifications, why not automatically give the job to the person of color?

You call it unfair and I call it justice.

Why is it justice?!?! 🤨

So its racist when black looters are portrayed as criminals, but its not racism when a black man gets picked for a job BECAUSE he is black?!? 🤨

Dear god, im positive this wasnt what Dr. King wanted

Originally posted by D-Double

kidnapping of Africans, ect. ect.

Actually Africans sold other africans into slavery 😐

I love you

Originally posted by Grimm22
Actually Africans sold other africans into slavery 😐

Thats usually conveniently forgotten Grimm.

Originally posted by MJOILNIR
Thats usually conveniently forgotten Grimm.

Possibly in your eyes but would you say just as conveniently forgotten as the U.S.'s dark past, by your kind?

slavery is in no way covered up in any public school history curriculum (...yet, im sure kansas will attempt it, failing with creationism)

however it is indeed inappropriate to bring up a handful of greedy tribe leaders (often if not always selling of p.o.w.'s or whatever they referred to them as).
it was not mainstream culture in africa to sell slaves, where it was mainstream culture to own or simply condone slavery.

this "africans sold the slaves" is usually the battlecry of racists attempting to absolve the u.s. of any wrongdoing, or to dillude it.

Originally posted by PVS
slavery is in no way covered up in any public school history curriculum (...yet, im sure kansas will attempt it, failing with creationism)

however it is indeed inappropriate to bring up a handful of greedy tribe leaders (often if not always selling of p.o.w.'s or whatever they referred to them as).
it was not mainstream culture in africa to sell slaves, where it was mainstream culture to own or simply condone slavery.

this "africans sold the slaves" is usually the battlecry of racists attempting to absolve the u.s. of any wrongdoing, or to dillude it.

I thought i'd never say this (to you) but surprisingly, I'll have to admit that your statement is truly sensible and off the top i can't come up with anyone else on here who could've said it better.

I still don't like you and I know you could care less if I do or don't but I'll have to honestly say that I agree 100% with what you've written down.

And as an aside, I'm not agreeing with you because what you wrote may've seemed like a pro-black statement to me, because I've heard blacks referring to the "africans sold the slaves" thing, in the anti-black stance, so..i just thought what you wrote sounded credible.

Originally posted by FistOfThe North
I thought i'd never say this (to you) but surprisingly, I'll have to admit that your statement is truly sensible and off the top i can't come up with anyone else on here who could've said it better.

I still don't like you and I know you could care less if I do or don't but I'll have to honestly say that I agree 100% with what you've written down.

And as an aside, I'm not agreeing with you because what you wrote may've seemed like a pro-black statement to me, because I've heard blacks referring to the "africans sold the slaves" thing, in the anti-black stance, so..i just thought what you wrote sounded credible.

i think the idea of pro-black is just as racist as pro-white. i prefer to be pro-truth and pro-human. also, whether or not you agree with my statement means about as much to me as what you had for breakfast this morning...but thanks anyway i guess.

oh, minor correction. (for those with poor deductive reasoning)

Originally posted by PVS
slavery is in no way covered up in any public school history curriculum (...yet, im sure kansas will attempt it, failing with creationism)

however it is indeed inappropriate to bring up a handful of greedy tribe leaders (often if not always selling of p.o.w.'s or whatever they referred to them as).
it was not mainstream culture in africa to sell slaves, where it was mainstream culture to own or simply condone slavery [in the u.s.].

this "africans sold the slaves" is usually the battlecry of racists attempting to absolve the u.s. of any wrongdoing, or to dillude it.

Originally posted by MJOILNIR
Thats usually conveniently forgotten Grimm.

indeed it is.

Originally posted by PVS
i think the idea of pro-black is just as racist as pro-white. i prefer to be pro-truth and pro-human. also, whether or not you agree with my statement means about as much to me as what you had for breakfast this morning...but thanks anyway i guess.

Np. But firstly, I skipped breakfast today, and second, I wasn't shooting for the attainment of your good graces. Never have never will. My esteem's not that low. I was merely acknowledging and agreeing with your statement.

In fact, I wasn't even anticipating a reply, at all. I hadn't requested anything.

But keep the good work, though.

Originally posted by PVS
i think the idea of pro-black is just as racist as pro-white

How does being pro-some race make a person racist?