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Originally posted by KILLA420

Originally posted by Lana
Can I just point out that just because two people are going out, they aren't necessarily in love, and just because two people are in love, they aren't necessarily dating?

Originally posted by Shelbert Lemon
Im an adult, I enjoy sex. Im not into any kind of serious relationship nor do I want to be. I refuse to deprive myself if I have a willing partner I trust who wants the same 'no strings attached' intimacies. I dont think that makes me a whore. If someone thinks I am, thats their opinion. I dont judge myself based on other peoples opinions on me and my activities.

Originally posted by Lana
Maybe you should word things more carefully then?

And it is indeed true. You think it's simply for showing love - I think it's for all three things you named (pleasure, lust, and love).

As is, as I said, that just because two people are dating doesn't necessarily mean they love each other, and just because two people are in love it doesn't necessarily mean they are dating.

Originally posted by Impediment
I've had many one night stands. ✅ Some alcohol induced, some sober, but all were fun. I'd do it again. Just remember to wear a rubber, else you might get the Booty Flu.

Originally posted by Itzak
I was kidding. bag

So was I 🥷

Kelly, I thought you were so in love with Daniel. If you actually loved him and respected him and truly wanted him and only him back, you wouldn't sleep with some other guy and act like daniel never existed. IF its truly over for you and him and see no chance of getting back together thats different. but don't do something you will regret 🙁 especially if this other guy is not in love with you. he will only see you as a booty call cause your making yourself to available.

*gets ready to be bashed*

Originally posted by Raven Guardia
Kelly, I thought you were so in love with Daniel. If you actually loved him and respected him and truly wanted him and only him back, you wouldn't sleep with some other guy and act like daniel never existed. IF its truly over for you and him and see no chance of getting back together thats different. but don't do something you will regret 🙁 especially if this other guy is not in love with you. he will only see you as a booty call cause your making yourself to available.

*gets ready to be bashed*

Seems like she's getting over him in her own way. But you have a point, if it's relevant. Surely it depends on how she truly feels and surely only she knows that?

Originally posted by Raven Guardia
Kelly, I thought you were so in love with Daniel. If you actually loved him and respected him and truly wanted him and only him back, you wouldn't sleep with some other guy and act like daniel never existed. IF its truly over for you and him and see no chance of getting back together thats different. but don't do something you will regret 🙁 especially if this other guy is not in love with you. he will only see you as a booty call cause your making yourself to available.

*gets ready to be bashed*

i got soul!! and i'm super bad! 😎

Originally posted by Kelly_LS
Honey you have NO idea how Daniel feels about me now. I've got so many people to talk to him and each person that has come back to me has told me that he never wants to get back with me and he is happy being single and it shows so much. I don't "Love' him anymore and it took Zach to help me figure that out. And I totally would never do something that I would regret, Zach's a good friend of mine and I am in total puppy love with him right now, I'd give anything to have him but it won't happen obviously. And it's not an absolute certainty that we'll have sex this Friday, we may just hang out in town together.

I'm glad you're feeling positive about things. And, sex is good ✅

Originally posted by Syren
I'm glad you're feeling positive about things. And, sex is good ✅

Seems you were blind, yet now you see 😱

Originally posted by Kelly_LS
Haha, AND where is Raeann in this? No worries on the rubber thing. I can't even get pregnant and If anything happens Friday, he's wearing one. w00t

I only met her 3 years ago, and before that I was whore. I'd sleep with anything with a pulse.

Originally posted by Syren
Seems you were blind, yet now you see 😱

Originally posted by Kelly_LS
Honey you have NO idea how Daniel feels about me now. I've got so many people to talk to him and each person that has come back to me has told me that he never wants to get back with me and he is happy being single and it shows so much. I don't "Love' him anymore and it took Zach to help me figure that out. And I totally would never do something that I would regret, Zach's a good friend of mine and I am in total puppy love with him right now, I'd give anything to have him but it won't happen obviously. And it's not an absolute certainty that we'll have sex this Friday, we may just hang out in town together.

I never said I knew how he felt, only the way you showed you felt about him around here. and you don't just quickly get over someone you 'loved'. it takes time. just last week you said you cried all day over him now suddenly it all changed pretty fast. and just being puppy love shouldn't be the type of love to have sex(you should let the love grow to real love, then make the decision).if thats the case it would be alright for a bunch of elementary schoolers to have sex. you might not think you'll regret it now. but perhaps later you will. like driving 110 down a high way with a car full of friends. not another bright idea of yours.

you guys can disagree with me if you want, I am only simply saying my opinion I don't wanna start an argument or fight because of it. I am not forcing you to make any decision. I just don't want you to make one that might hurt you. but as Syren said only you know how you feel. but just keep in mind sometimes feelings can be misleading....and I just hope whatever you do decide to do, I hope your happy. and if you and zach are happy together being friends plus benifits and doing all the other stuff you do and it brings you no harm then okay.

and thats all I got to say about that 😂

Originally posted by Impediment
I only met her 3 years ago, and before that I was whore. I'd sleep with anything with a pulse.

Originally posted by Raven Guardia
I never said I knew how he felt, only the way you showed you felt about him around here. and you don't just quickly get over someone you 'loved'. it takes time. just last week you said you cried all day over him now suddenly it all changed pretty fast. and just being puppy love shouldn't be the type of love to have sex(you should let the love grow to real love, then make the decision).if thats the case it would be alright for a bunch of elementary schoolers to have sex. you might not think you'll regret it now. but perhaps later you will. like driving 110 down a high way with a car full of friends. not another bright idea of yours.

you guys can disagree with me if you want, I am only simply saying my opinion I don't wanna start an argument or fight because of it. I am not forcing you to make any decision. I just don't want you to make one that might hurt you. but as Syren said only you know how you feel. but just keep in mind sometimes feelings can be misleading....and I just hope whatever you do decide to do, I hope your happy. and if you and zach are happy together being friends plus benifits and doing all the other stuff you do and it brings you no harm then okay.

and thats all I got to say about that 😂

Of course NOT!

🤨

Originally posted by Kelly_LS

Are you talking to me? I'm confuzzled!

Just pointing it out and stating it to everyone.

Dating does not equal being in love, and being in love does not equal dating.

Originally posted by Kelly_LS
I didn't say that I was completely over him, I just said that Zach had helped me a lot with it and showed me unintentionally that there are other people out there and I don't just have to mope because lost the person I thought I was going to marry.
But you won't start a fight with me, I know it's strictly opinion. 😉

Its good, well great that your not moping anymore ✅ and its awesome that zach help show you that too. I really hope everything works out for you.

Originally posted by Lana
Just pointing it out and stating it to everyone.

Dating does not equal being in love, and being in love does not equal dating.

Originally posted by Lana
Just pointing it out and stating it to everyone.

Dating does not equal being in love, and being in love does not equal dating.

Originally posted by Raven Guardia
Its good, well great that your not moping anymore ✅ and its awesome that zach help show you that too. I really hope everything works out for you.

Originally posted by Kelly_LS
Honey you have NO idea how Daniel feels about me now. I've got so many people to talk to him and each person that has come back to me has told me that he never wants to get back with me and he is happy being single and it shows so much. I don't "Love' him anymore and it took Zach to help me figure that out. And I totally would never do something that I would regret, Zach's a good friend of mine and I am in total puppy love with him right now, I'd give anything to have him but it won't happen obviously. And it's not an absolute certainty that we'll have sex this Friday, we may just hang out in town together.

hon. you never "loved" him. you must have felt for him...very much.