Why do parents hide sex from there kids?

Started by Kelly_Bean7 pages

Originally posted by Bardiel13
Why do parent hide their kids form sex? Because, do you really want your six year old to know these things that early in life? Like many said, kids are easy to confuse and they don't know better. If you tell you elementary-aged kid "A man sticks his penis in a woman's vagina and furiously pumps in and out until he spooges 'sperm' into her and then she gets off (if the job's done right, that is) and her vagina will contract, sucking up that delicious sperm. Then, said sperm goes to the egg, where a baby is conceived.", you really think the kid's gonna go "Okay, thanks for the info, Dad!"
First, his little world of innocence gets shattered, then he decides he should be a big boy and nail Betty in his 3rd Grade class. I think the best time to tell a child where babies come from is about 12 or something, but emphasis, "However, if you think you're going to ever experience the mindblowing bliss of coitus, you better think again" and then get the hedge-clippers.
Yep, I've got my "answers to life" all worked out. If my son asks, "Dad, what comes out of the vagina?" I'll answer with another question, "Pfft, what doesn't come out of the vagina?!" I'll be the bst parent ever!

A six year old isn't going to realise what the people are doing. If he/she does, that's got to be one advanced child! It's not like the six year old is going to see something explicit and say "Oh look, Mommy, they're having sex with each other!" Nonetheless, I'm not agreeing that kids should be exposed to it or anything. If exposure happens, it happens, but parents shouldn't go millions of miles out of their way to keep the kid from EVERYTHING.

I don't think he was serious.

-AC

Originally posted by Alpha Centauri
I don't think he was serious.

-AC


Well, if he wasn't this could just be another post to reply to the topic with.

I do not hide the fact that I love my wife from my son. I kiss, hold, and caress her all the time in front of my son. I avoid sexual acts in front of him like boob grabbing but I want him to know that we love each other. I knew at a very young age how babies were made..maybe 5 or 6. I was a little nerd and thirsted after knowledge and read anything and everything. I don't think that most children know about sex that early...probably because I don't think that 5 and 6 years olds are reading encyclopedias at that age either.

What I am saying is, it is a child by child basis. A parent should be vary adaptable to their children.

Also, violence exposure should be on a child by child basis. I wasn't very sensitive to it but my little sisters were. My little sisters would have nightmares after watching violent things so my parents had to throttle the media that they were exposed to. Again, a child by child basis.

Also, let us not forget how violent humans are. Public executions were very common and the whole family attended those types of things. Colosseum anyone? The idea that we should shelter our children from violence is a retarding idea. (Retarding as in inhibitive.) Some things about modern society pisses me off...censorship, despite thousands of years of violence in humanity, is annoying. I am not talking about things having ratings and the booth clerk preventing a 5 year old from buying a ticket to Eyes Wide Shut, I am talking about the 2nd grade teacher who freaks out because a student finds it funny when the little bunny gets eaten by the wolf...etc.

Originally posted by Blax_Hydralisk
Why do parents go through such great pains to shield there Children from sex, something all Kids will learn about sooner or later, yet most don't try as hard to shield them from violence?
Because children are easily influenced and aren't at a maturity level that's able to handle such concepts of life.

It's a shame......b/c all one has to do is visit KMC to learn all they need to know about sex........and at such a young age too.

Sad.

Anata wa wakarimasu ka.....

So you influence them to know that just because that's how it works, it's not ok to run off and do it, and the chances that a kid will isn't really that likely at 6.

-AC

No, not likely at the age of 6, which seemingly is the only age a child will ever be.....so no worries.

Anata wa wakarimasu ka.....

I've walked in on my Mom, my dog, and myself. Not all at once, of course.

Originally posted by botankus
I've walked in on my Mom, my dog, and myself. Not all at once, of course.

Dude, how can you walk in on yourself? 😕

When I was three I was watching my neighbor totoro with my parents... there's a scene where the character Mei finds a pond full of tadpoles... I jumped up pointed at the screen and shocked my parents by saying what I thought they were... 😮

Re: Why do parents hide sex from there kids?

Originally posted by Blax_Hydralisk
Why do parents go through such great pains to shield there Children from sex, something all Kids will learn about sooner or later, yet most don't try as hard to shield them from violence?
Because you touch yourself at night.

Originally posted by Creshosk
When I was three I was watching my neighbor totoro with my parents... there's a scene where the character Mei finds a pond full of tadpoles... I jumped up pointed at the screen and shocked my parents by saying what I thought they were... 😮

Heeheehee.

I remember when I was little, I always thought boobs were so gross, and so was nudity. I'm a completely different person now.....

I remember when I was young, I don't know what age exactly, my parents and I were in the living room watching one of the Halloween movies (4 or 5) and the sexual scene between the two costumed people in the barn came up and I looked away and my Mom started laughing and she's like "What're you turning your head for? They're not doing anything." , or something along those lines. xd2 I used to get SO embarrassed when a sex/sexual scene would come up and I was sitting with my parents because it was so akward to be watching stuff like that with them. Ugh!

Originally posted by SelphieT
Heeheehee.

I remember when I was little, I always thought boobs were so gross, and so was nudity. I'm a completely different person now.....

Go on.

I remember when I was a kid, about 4 or 5, my dad asked me if my butthole was bleeding, I said no, and he asked me if he could check.

The rest is history.

Originally posted by .😖pace Opera:.
I remember when I was a kid, about 4 or 5, my dad asked me if my butthole was bleeding, I said no, and he asked me if he could check.

The rest is history.

*nipples harden*And?

Originally posted by Victor Von Doom
Go on.

Do you........want me.....to go on?

That'd be grand.

Originally posted by lord xyz
😮

How old are you?

16

Originally posted by Quiero Mota
Neither am I.

Because you're not a parent.

Well if the child is 6 then that would make a parent cringe. Hopefully not if they're teenagers or adults.

You have a couple of sons, right? How did you approach the subject with them?

My mother, she just left a stack of books on my dresser. We never discussed it. At one point, I think she was about to start a conversation about it, but I wouldn't let it happen. In fact, I used to jerk off to the pictures in those books.