Originally posted by Neo_Version 7
Well, the thing is, I hate the feeling that I've invested so much time in the relationship and now it's over, you know what I mean?Crazy.
I know how that feels too. For the first steps of dealing with it, it's a good idea to forget about it as much as you can. Then, once you think you're ready to deal with it properly, you do. Talk to family as well, that works 👆
Originally posted by Neo_Version 7That's exactly how I felt with my last relationship. I also hated the fact that I Really came to love her family too. But that happens, and you'll go through it again.
Well, the thing is, I hate the feeling that I've invested so much time in the relationship and now it's over, you know what I mean?Crazy.
Originally posted by The Grey Fox
Read a good book 👆Trust me, it can help
*reads a Business Management book*
Girlfriend: What are you trying to say?
Me: I'm trying to say that we're making a cut back, our relationship isn't making enough as it is, someone has to be laid off... you're fired!
Yeah, that does help...
At least I didn't read the bible. 😐
Originally posted by Itzak
*reads a Business Management book*Girlfriend: What are you trying to say?
Me: I'm trying to say that we're making a cut back, our relationship isn't making enough as it is, someone has to be laid off... you're fired!
Yeah, that does help...
At least I didn't read the bible. 😐
lawl you know what I mean, a fiction book 131
Yeah. I mean, I just hate the fact that people older than me say "You got plenty of time to settle down" (i'm 18). They say things like, "I've been through that too. We all have." "Lots of girls out there."
I know what they're trying to do when they say things like that, but it doesn't help does it? It just makes you feel insignificant because you thought to yourself, "I'm experiencing something special. I'm one of the few who won't need to date around for 10 years to find the girl I want to marry because here she is."
Messed-up that.
Originally posted by Itzak
*reads a Business Management book*Girlfriend: What are you trying to say?
Me: I'm trying to say that we're making a cut back, our relationship isn't making enough as it is, someone has to be laid off... you're fired!
Yeah, that does help...
At least I didn't read the bible. 😐
I don't even find anything Business-related funny (The Office and Dilbert notwithstanding), but that bit has cheered me up.
Originally posted by Neo_Version 7Unfortunately they're right though 😬
Yeah. I mean, I just hate the fact that people older than me say "You got plenty of time to settle down" (i'm 18). They say things like, "I've been through that too. We all have." "Lots of girls out there."I know what they're trying to do when they say things like that, but it doesn't help does it? It just makes you feel insignificant because you thought to yourself, "I'm experiencing something special. I'm one of the few who won't need to date around for 10 years to find the girl I want to marry because here she is."
Messed-up that.
And even YOU might say the same thing to someone in the future 😛
Originally posted by Itzak
*Goes to read the bible* vin
Originally posted by Neo_Version 7
Yeah. I mean, I just hate the fact that people older than me say "You got plenty of time to settle down" (i'm 18). They say things like, "I've been through that too. We all have." "Lots of girls out there."I know what they're trying to do when they say things like that, but it doesn't help does it? It just makes you feel insignificant because you thought to yourself, "I'm experiencing something special. I'm one of the few who won't need to date around for 10 years to find the girl I want to marry because here she is."
Messed-up that.
I hate tho old 'plenty more fish in the sea' rope that girls always throw at people. It depresses me. 🙁
Still, the people here have some good ideas, I'm sure we can help you 😄
Originally posted by Neo_Version 7
Yeah. I mean, I just hate the fact that people older than me say "You got plenty of time to settle down" (i'm 18). They say things like, "I've been through that too. We all have." "Lots of girls out there."I know what they're trying to do when they say things like that, but it doesn't help does it? It just makes you feel insignificant because you thought to yourself, "I'm experiencing something special. I'm one of the few who won't need to date around for 10 years to find the girl I want to marry because here she is."
Messed-up that.
I absolutely agree.
Yeah, it's definitely cliche but like you said, I wouldn't completely rule out saying that to someone younger in the future.
Well, here's the thing. I have to ask. On TV, you see all these characters who are "players" (i.e. Barney from How I Met Your Mother, Joey from Friends). How do these characters get so emotionally detached from women? I admire their lack of emotional involvement with women but how does someone end up like that. Or is it a work of fiction like the shows themselves?
Originally posted by Neo_Version 7No there are real people like that. Some of them are probably born with it whereas others got hurt enough to become like it. Some might have a very bad past (or maybe very good?) and just turn into that. I could never do that, I like being romantic.
Yeah, it's definitely cliche but like you said, I wouldn't completely rule out saying that to someone younger in the future.Well, here's the thing. I have to ask. On TV, you see all these characters who are "players" (i.e. Barney from How I Met Your Mother, Joey from Friends). How do these characters get so emotionally detached from women? I admire their lack of emotional involvement with women but how does someone end up like that. Or is it a work of fiction like the shows themselves?