Originally posted by Mr. Bacon
its different fotr everyone, there no set standards for getting over a relationship, it happens when it happens and there not uch you can do to expedite the process, so hang in there, enjoy your life and your friends and school and whatever.
Well, to be honest, I'm more of a homebody but yeah, I'm grasping the concept. I just hate doing this dance all over again. Kind of puts you off women. Uhm..relationships. Sorry.
I wouldn't say ignorance, I'd say, dilute.
Obviously I don't mean forget what happened. I mean make yourself think you don't care as much as you do. If you downgrade how you think you feel it will hurt less. It might last longer, but it will hurt less.
And it's a hell of a lot better than holding ill will and resent. That will just bring you down farther.