Originally posted by Blightye, that sux. The mom loved the hell outta me, but when my ex split, I became expendable. Haven't heard from the Mom since.
That's exactly how I felt with my last relationship. I also hated the fact that I Really came to love her family too. But that happens, and you'll go through it again.
I hear all this talk about throwing away pictures and deleting IMs. And not calling. But I still have pics of her, and some messages. And I call her every other week. I don't see what's so bad about it. Hearing that she was seeing someone else recently though has lead me to remove the picture of her.
So, get rid of the memories or keep holding on?
Originally posted by Neo_Version 7My ex and I broke up in June and I didn't take her pictures away until about 2 weeks ago.. so yeah, you can keep them for now.
I hear all this talk about throwing away pictures and deleting IMs. And not calling. But I still have pics of her, and some messages. And I call her every other week. I don't see what's so bad about it. Hearing that she was seeing someone else recently though has lead me to remove the picture of her.So, get rid of the memories or keep holding on?
Originally posted by Neo_Version 7move on, man. It's unhealthy to hold on. I bet she's not holding on, is she?
I hear all this talk about throwing away pictures and deleting IMs. And not calling. But I still have pics of her, and some messages. And I call her every other week. I don't see what's so bad about it. Hearing that she was seeing someone else recently though has lead me to remove the picture of her.So, get rid of the memories or keep holding on?
depends why you broke up in the first place.
Originally posted by Neo_Version 7Then you need to throw that shit away, dude.
Yeah. But what's the limit? Just seeing her face everyday makes me happy. And I can't not think about her. I don't know what it is. If I could learn to be emotionally-detached like these "players" I'm guessing it would do me a lot of help.