Originally posted by Burning thoughtOkay. 😄
then you can label me as humourless
Oh and not all of us women are the same, ya know. Some are only out for themselves just like some men are. But I feel deep inside that we are really not all that different. We want love, respect and acknowledgement.
Women like to please men, but in return they want to feel appreciated for it.
I think very few people especially in todays one track soceity people are anything more than just animals, which means most men are just after sex thus theres the constant "your a guy, all you want is sex" arguments from a womens point of view but then the women are just as bad with their constant and only future interest in having children as their main achievement. In the end its a combination of social conditioning and animal behavior turning what is an intelligent human being that can think for itself into basically a controlled animal.
Which is why I keep away from the controlled drones, if a women only wants a child, she is a drone, if a guy only wants sex and that is his only idea about a women he is a drone.
Although personally I would like to think there are non drone men and women around, problem is no drone would admit to being one or even realise.
Age groups are controlled in diffrent ways but the female is diverted on a path that is usually bent on creating children, its probably one of the main reasons why you have so many baby dolls on the market, most age groups have their own divertions even if its the overall view of earlier female generations already made into drones feeding the youngens heads with this nonsense.
oh sure it changes, theres guy who "just" want sex, and then theres guys who dont need it like an animlal would, and very few women "dont" want children, some people can see past their animal minds just like guys.
Its difficult for a human not to be an animal, problem is those who can change things dont want to, especialyl since most of the time it makes them money.
Re: Re: What are some things that I need to know about women?
Originally posted by FistOfThe North
throw love out the window. look at marriage as a business.for a wife?
she has to have a good resume, lifewise. does she have overburdomsome issues/baggage, real and mental. has she gone to school, is she a good money manager, is she deeply in (bad debt). how would she be with kids, responsible or irresponsible. This can all be found out after a few dates if in your eyes she seems as if she has potential. and always try to have sex with her on the first date. (be smooth about it though) and if she lets you have sex with her she's not good material cause she's easy. and don't worry. there are more chicks than guys. you'll have mad chances of finding the one for you. she doesn't have to be perfect but she has to compliment you and likewise.
and throw looks out. that'll leave in half a decade. and if there was nothing there but how cute she looked then there'll be nothing at all and you'll feel nothing for her and you'd end up depressed/suicidal cause you thought you were in love when all you really did was waste her time and yours cause you were thinking with the wrong head
and don't marry a girl cause shes cute either. or cause your mom likes her. only idiots do that.
and never ever marry for money, you'll end up paying for it for the rest of your life.
and make sure she's not too bright but not too dumb.
and wait till your about 30 to marry. there's no rush.
oh and don't forget a prenup, too.
Thanks but I would like to have a little optimism with their looks even in 5 years. I have family that have been together for more than ten years, 20 years, and they look very good. I would like to believe that my wife will look excellent across time. Money, I want to be the one supporting my family, I don't want my wife doing all of the work. I want to reduce as much stress on her as I can. I want her to have the best life that she always wanted, that comes at a cost. At the same time, I want her to be with me. That is the problem that I have had for a long time. I have been as committed as I can be but the appreciation they should have had for me went to other man. Their heart were on other men. I did not fit their picture, there was always some other guy that had it better than I did, were very attractive, good with the ladies, it did not matter if the man worked their nerves, it did not matter if they broke their heart. They needed that struggle to tell a good story to their friends, Did what I have to offer mean anything? I could have independence, I could have these things but I don't have her with me, supporting me. I am tired of being lonely, I'm tired of losing sleep at night wondering if she cares, Im tired of them quitting on me, Im through with them turning against me. Im tired of being low person on the list for no reason at all. Im tired of feeling like an animal and a freak. Why is it like this?
I feel different from them. Sometimes I feel like I did not fit in. But I was there, but it seem to be no big deal to them. I have to fight with my past on a day to day basis, trying to overcome the insignificance in my life. I feel like I wasn't important but its a lie because I have done so much not to be insignificant.
You know God gave me a friend. Yeah, he gave me a friend who hung in there. She's a great friend and my best friend. The way it should be. I complain about my past but God has blessed my future every time, and she got to be in it. Everything that I have asked for he's always been there for me. I just need to be happy with what I have. Everything will be alright, I just have to be patient and diligent. Dreams will come true.