gutted, absolutely gutted :(
I dont know what to do with myself!
Friday, the love of my life, my parnter for 4 years broke up with me becuase apparently I dont talk to him enough.
There is more going on the he is letting on but he keeps hiding from me.
I want to sort it out but he isnt interested. He wants to be FRIENDS!!!!
I'm so hurt and insulted. I dont know what to do for the best.
Aww so sorry that this happened Lara, it must hurt right now, however at least he's being decent enough to ask if you can still be his friend, most of the time people get real bitchy over this stuff, you should take a while to collect you're thoughts and calm down, he obviously highly values you enough to hope you guys can still get along.
we were friends before we were together so that bit doent bother me its the fact that he cant be honest with me. yeah the truth hurts but any attempt to get him to talk about what is going on with him gets shunned and he gets so cold with me. I'm just so confused as we didnt have a bad relationship, we didnt even fight this just came out of the blue and the shock hasnt help its made me so ill I've had to take a week off work. 😄 I miss him and I dont want to lose him but I just want some honesty and of course some answers. I think he owes me that much.
Originally posted by Lara
we were friends before we were together so that bit doent bother me its the fact that he cant be honest with me. yeah the truth hurts but any attempt to get him to talk about what is going on with him gets shunned and he gets so cold with me. I'm just so confused as we didnt have a bad relationship, we didnt even fight this just came out of the blue and the shock hasnt help its made me so ill I've had to take a week off work. 😄 I miss him and I dont want to lose him but I just want some honesty and of course some answers. I think he owes me that much.
Belive me i know how you feel, something simmilar has happened to me with a so called friend.
I'm sorry this has happened though all i can say is i hope you can work stuff out and well both be happy.
Originally posted by Larasorry about your troubles, I hope things turn out for the best.
I dont know what to do with myself!Friday, the love of my life, my parnter for 4 years broke up with me becuase apparently I dont talk to him enough.
There is more going on the he is letting on but he keeps hiding from me.I want to sort it out but he isnt interested. He wants to be FRIENDS!!!!
I'm so hurt and insulted. I dont know what to do for the best.
Re: gutted, absolutely gutted :(
Originally posted by Lara
I dont know what to do with myself!Friday, the love of my life, my parnter for 4 years broke up with me becuase apparently I dont talk to him enough.
There is more going on the he is letting on but he keeps hiding from me.I want to sort it out but he isnt interested. He wants to be FRIENDS!!!!
I'm so hurt and insulted. I dont know what to do for the best.
Sorry to hear that... 🙁
Yeah, give him some time and space, and give yourself some space to calm down and think 🙂
The more you try to approach him, the more he's gonna hide away. When the time is right for him, I'm sure he'll approach you to talk about it 😉
thats what every one keeps saying.
There is a saying that my Grandma has: "if you love some thing, let it go. If it comes back to you then it was always yours."
I just dont know. I went to pick up all my things on saturday and things were so weird. He was weird. To begin with he was so cold and then he realised I wasnt there to have an argument I just wanted to see how he was, get my stuff (which he had already packed, every last little thing!) and go.
But there was a look in his eyes I hadnt seen for a long time which made me leave in a much better mood. That look he had tells me there is some hope of this being resloved but my common sense and understanding of him says "that it".
I guess only time will tell. He knows How I feel and what I think about all this so he knows where he stands with me. I just done know where I stand with him which is the hardest thing. That and the fact I'm in love with him and I just cant turn it off. Oh, he knows that too.
oh well, tick tock goes the clock. 🙁