gutted, absolutely gutted :(

lolllll

you kow that is such juvenile behavior! I'll remember that when you get ditched!

Originally posted by Lara
he knows how I feel, and what I want. I have made that very clear. All I get when I ask him where I stand is:

"I'm confused, I'm sorry"

Always the "I'm Sorry"! wouldnt be so bad but after hearing it so many times it just gets annoying and loses its value.

Yes, I love him to bits, always have and always will and Yes I am "in love" with him and yes I want to be with him.
I guess that makes me the fool.

Even if he got himself sorted out and came to me and said "lets try again" I'd do it like the big softie I am. Even after all this.

DOes that make me an idiot?

Even with that, I know it doesnt cut off the feelings you have for him...
Let him go.. if he comes back to you and you feel its right, then take him back.... that doesnt make you an idiot. Only you know whats best for you.

Aw, thankyou. you always seem to know how to make me feel better 🙂

I wish I knew what it was that was bothering him but I dont think I'm ever going to find out.
I'm letting go, its just harder than I thought it would be.
I just hope that if he does come to me and wants to try again, I hope its before too much changes in me and I give up on him. 😂

life is truelly ironic.

Originally posted by Lara
Aw, thankyou. you always seem to know how to make me feel better 🙂

I wish I knew what it was that was bothering him but I dont think I'm ever going to find out.
I'm letting go, its just harder than I thought it would be.
I just hope that if he does come to me and wants to try again, I hope its before too much changes in me and I give up on him. 😂

life is truelly ironic.

That would actually be the best and smartest thing to do. Move on.

Originally posted by Ms Chelle
"Im confused, Im sorry." is a brush off... specially if everything seemed fine till the moment he broke it off.... what is he so confused about? He should be able to tell you whats confusing or bothering him.

Even with that, I know it doesnt cut off the feelings you have for him...
Let him go.. if he comes back to you and you feel its right, then take him back.... that doesnt make you an idiot. Only you know whats best for you.

it took the guy 4 years to realize you dont talk too much?

A) it should not take such a long time to realise that and B) you are every man's dream if you dont talk to much.

I actually talk more on line than I do actual verbal speech 😂

I dont have much to talk about these days. I dont get time to do much that gets me excited and wanting to talk about it.

its mostly work, family or music and the occasional comment about a new artist I've discovered or a new peice by one of my fave artists.

But generally no, I'm not a big talker. I think some times words are over rated. I only say things when I really mean them.

I dont know what to think now! 😱

He called me just before midnight, he sounded upset 😖 he wouldnt tell me what was wrong said it would be better to discuss it in person and then asked me to go out with him tonight to have dinner and see a film.

mesa sooooooooooooooooooooo 😕

hope everything works out for u

If it hurts too much then don't be friends, leave him intirely otherwise your feelings for him will never go away, and it'll slowly kill you emotionally

I know that. The thing that is bugging me is why call me in the middle of the night and ask me out for dinner and a film?

Maybe he did something that he feels guilty about and is trying to make it up to you while keeping you from finding out just what it was he did

maybe. maybe he just had a reality check? I dont know.

its just this whole thing is making me jittery, I'm trying to get on with my work but I cant becuase I'm nervous about tonight and I'm curious because he wouldnt tell me on the phone he said he wanted to do it in person.

my curiosity is my worst problem. I just cant leave things alone if its bugging me I have to get to the bottom of it.

I know the feeling, i went through the same thing with an ex of mine .. and turned out she'd been cheating on me for months

no it isnt just with the relationship. My curiosity come into play with every thing.

Not only that if he was cheating he would have told me by now. The guilt would have eaten him away not only that some one would have told me if they thought some thing fishy was going on.

I'm a rather curios person myself.
And you can't trust everyone to notice something like that, or expect it to eat away at them, assuming like that will only get you hurt in the end

no I know him well. His mum cheated in all her marriages and he cant and wont stand for it, let alone do it himself.

well then i dunno, hopefully he just got cold feet or something

I dont know I guess all will be revealed tonight. 😖