gutted, absolutely gutted :(

Originally posted by Lara
I dont know what to do with myself!

Grieve, it's natural.

Originally posted by Lara
Friday, the love of my life, my parnter for 4 years broke up with me becuase apparently I dont talk to him enough.

I'm willing to call shenanigans on that one. Communication is a two way street. This sounds like the excuse of a guy who wants to appear sensitive, but put all the blame on you. It's kind of the childish way to negate one's own guilt.

Originally posted by Lara
There is more going on the he is letting on but he keeps hiding from me.

Please be prepared to see him going out with someone very soon. I don't want to sound cruel, but not wanting to talk about it, blaming you, it sounds like he's already making moves on another relationship.

Originally posted by Lara
I want to sort it out but he isnt interested. He wants to be FRIENDS!!!!

I hope I am wrong, but I doubt very much that you will end up being friends, especially the way he ended it. Plus I think you deserve friends that treat you with a little more respect.

Originally posted by Lara
I'm so hurt and insulted. I dont know what to do for the best.

I understand hurt, but don't be insulted or embarrassed. As for what to do for the best...give yourself time, and learn something from the relationship and what happened. Remember the positive, learn from the negative and use all that experience to find someone who deserves your attention moreso than this individual.

A broken heart is just one way to tell that it still works, that you have something to give, and that the one who broke your heart isn't worthy of recieving it.

Just my thoughts.

Hope you feel better soon.

thankyou I feel a bit better now.

Originally posted by Lara
thankyou I feel a bit better now.

No problem. Glad I could help, if even for just a moment.

What makes them walk away, after all these years?
These years are burning in the hard way by the lessons from the tears
I know it’s not a game
But it feels like losing when someone you love throws you away

How easy was it for you making those plans you made?
Before I became someone for you, you know to try to dislocate
But, I know it’s not a game
But if feels like losing when someone you love gets up and walks away

I’d fix it
I’d fix it if I could

mmmm.

I spoke to him on my lunch break, Because I heard some stuff and I needed to know if it was true or not. He says its not so I'll let that one be at the moment.

He has agreed to come to the rock club next week to see me and just try and have fun.

It could end up going any of four ways. 😖

OooooooooooOOOoOooooooo!!!!!!!! MEN!!!!!!!!!!!!!

blowup

Yeah we suck haermm

very few of you accept blame for anything.

Not all of us are like that. Men and women are on par with each other here, it's the person, not the sex.

Just go absolutely f*cking mental.

Do everything.

That's my suggestion to every problem in the world.

-AC

Originally posted by Alpha Centauri
Just go absolutely f*cking mental.

Do everything.

That's my suggestion to every problem in the world.

-AC

Nah, just do stuff.

-AC

Originally posted by Alpha Centauri
Nah, just do stuff.

-AC

aww Lara!! hug!

If he's breaking up with you after four years because "you don't talk to him enough"... I think he's lying, yeah.

Regardless, I hope things work out.

well right now I'm trying to get myself sorted. Just hanging out with friends and such. it just feels really weird!

its like a bad dream I can wake up from. speaking of which I'm now having nightmares again. ****ing brilliant!!!

hope you start feeling better

have you talked to him? do you want to get back together?

Originally posted by Lara
well right now I'm trying to get myself sorted. Just hanging out with friends and such. it just feels really weird!

its like a bad dream I can wake up from. speaking of which I'm now having nightmares again. ****ing brilliant!!!

he knows how I feel, and what I want. I have made that very clear. All I get when I ask him where I stand is:

"I'm confused, I'm sorry"

Always the "I'm Sorry"! wouldnt be so bad but after hearing it so many times it just gets annoying and loses its value.

Yes, I love him to bits, always have and always will and Yes I am "in love" with him and yes I want to be with him.
I guess that makes me the fool.

Even if he got himself sorted out and came to me and said "lets try again" I'd do it like the big softie I am. Even after all this.

DOes that make me an idiot?