Girlfriend's having too much fun with male friends.
Me and my girlfriend live together and have been in a relationship for three years now. But she does certain things that cause a lot of stress for me. What I want to know from all of you, is how far would you let your boy/girlfriend go with certain things they do with a friend of the opposite sex, before you start to feel jealous, and what do you feel is inappropriate behavior in a relationship?
Re: Girlfriend's having too much fun with male friends.
Originally posted by Marvelknight
Me and my girlfriend live together and have been in a relationship for three years now. But she does certain things that cause a lot of stress for me. What I want to know from all of you, is how far would you let your boy/girlfriend go with certain things they do with a friend of the opposite sex, before you start to feel jealous, and what do you feel is inappropriate behavior in a relationship?
Dude, wake up. She's ****in' one of her dude friends.
Dude friends. 😐
I hear you guys. My big problem is this pic i found from a party back in January 2010 of my girlfriend dancing with two guys friends. How many of you guys would be okay with this? And for the girls, how many of you would dance in the manner my girlfriend is in the pic below if you were in a long term relationship? Check this out...
Originally posted by Marvelknight
Me and my girlfriend live together and have been in a relationship for three years now. But she does certain things that cause a lot of stress for me. What I want to know from all of you, is how far would you let your boy/girlfriend go with certain things they do with a friend of the opposite sex, before you start to feel jealous, and what do you feel is inappropriate behavior in a relationship?
What all has she done, that you know about?
Originally posted by Marvelknight
I hear you guys. My big problem is this pic i found from a party back in January 2010 of my girlfriend dancing with two guys friends. How many of you guys would be okay with this? And for the girls, how many of you would dance in the manner my girlfriend is in the pic below if you were in a long term relationship? Check this out...
looks like regular old club dancing to me... 'specially for us blackies 😛
if it bothers you though talk to her about it.
Originally posted by LanceWindu
What all has she done, that you know about?
She has a history of keeping certain info out when telling me who she is hanging out with. Like lets say she gos to a bar or something of the sort with her girlfriends. She will not tell about any of her male friends who may also tag along. She has no pics of me n her on her Facebook. And I found pics on facebook of her sitting on a guy's lap in the way a girl would if she was giving him a lap dance.
Originally posted by Ms.Marvel
looks like regular old club dancing to me... 'specially for us blackies 😛if it bothers you though talk to her about it.
I have try that. But she feel that it ok because she didn't have sex with them. But I would never dance that way with another girl. I really don't see the need to be all up on someone like that. It looks very flirtatious to me.
the simple and logical answer then is that if it bothers you and she doesnt care if it bothers you then it probably means that there are or will be other things that she does that she doesnt care bother you... which isnt a good sign.
but on the other hand people are unpredictable and love is like that so i dunno.
consider it though. if it really bothers you and she isnt willing to work on it then i think there will be a problem.
Originally posted by Wild Shadow
i let her go but it wouldnt be based on her behavior but for other reasons... 😇
because shes better than you deserve? 😉
Originally posted by Ms.Marvel
the simple and logical answer then is that if it bothers you and she doesnt care if it bothers you then it probably means that there are or will be other things that she does that she doesnt care bother you... which isnt a good sign.but on the other hand people are unpredictable and love is like that so i dunno.
consider it though. if it really bothers you and she isnt willing to work on it then i think there will be a problem.
because shes better than you deserve? 😉
Yes I agree with you. Because it is a problem. And she's the kind of person who doesn't want conform to someone's needs. She feels like I'm trying to control her. But I'm not like that at all. But I feel that she should take my feelings into consideration at the very least. She just becomes upset and shuts down and doesn't want to talk about it. Which I feel is very immature since we are both 26 years of age.
Originally posted by King Kandy
Just chill out. She hasn't done anything wrong.
Why do you feel that way? I don't want you to feel attacked for your opinion. I just want a better understanding. Because I feel like that is not cool. It's ok to dance with someone just not the way she's doing it. It's a little over doing it imo.
Originally posted by Symmetric Chaos
Be more fun.
I'll admit that I'm not really the club type. But I have been to clubs. I just think that's a little too much fun. I really can't see her dancing like that with another guy and be ok with it. I mean it's not like she doesn't have a man at home. I think she needs to fall back a little.
Re: Girlfriend's having too much fun with male friends.
Originally posted by Marvelknighthave you asked to go with her ? if she says no than probably somethings going on she doesnt want you to know about.
Me and my girlfriend live together and have been in a relationship for three years now. But she does certain things that cause a lot of stress for me. What I want to know from all of you, is how far would you let your boy/girlfriend go with certain things they do with a friend of the opposite sex, before you start to feel jealous, and what do you feel is inappropriate behavior in a relationship?