Girlfriend's having too much fun with male friends.

Originally posted by Wild Shadow
why the hell are women and men taking advice from a gay man his advice should be suspect.. i mean is the gay dude in a guy's or woman's shoes or is he something else?

i mean what he might think should work may not be the majority opinion of the hetero couple...

Just skimmed the thread; I say dump her ass. I wouldn't be okay with how things seem to be in your relationship anyway if I was in your position. I've been in an unfaithful relationship, once was enough, been there done that. Shove that ***** to the curb and find someone better!

On an unrelated note, for some reason the guy in the Maverick shirt seems highly-****able.

Originally posted by Adam_PoE

On an unrelated note, for some reason the guy in the Maverick shirt seems highly-****able.

Originally posted by King Kandy
Because he's the most level headed, smartest guy about that sort of thing i've ever come across. Plus most people come to him with advice about fetishes and things like that and most columns won't touch the stuff.

I just read several of his columns.

Dude, he's a moron, gives out horrible advice at times, but is quite funny. His advice is 50-50. Some complete shit, some good.

Originally posted by King Kandy
Because he's the most level headed, smartest guy about that sort of thing i've ever come across. Plus most people come to him with advice about fetishes and things like that and most columns won't touch the stuff.

Originally posted by dadudemon
I just read several of his columns.

Dude, he's a moron, gives out horrible advice at times, but is quite funny. His advice is 50-50. Some complete shit, some good.

Originally posted by chomperx9
forget about the dude infront of her the dude behind her is doing the bump n grind move on her

I could care less about the guy behind her, it is the guy in front of her who looks like a good time.

Originally posted by Wild Shadow
i bn wanting to develop a slave pony fetish but i dont want to be the pony i want the girl to be the pny slave... i figured i have to buy a sex slave to get such a woman.

Or attend the Folsom Street Fair:

I have a hard time just walking away because I love her very much. But at the same time I feel like my heart is being torn out from my chest. I know if I stay with her, She'll have way too much power in the relationship. And my pride and self respect as a man would be lost. I don't know or understand why any man would want their girlfriend dancing in a seductive manner with other men and be ok with it. Because if it were any other actions like a hug, a kiss, or touching going on in seductive manner most guys I know would flip on their girlfriends. But dancing seductive is ok? What's the difference bettween dancing seductive and anything else done in a seductive manner? seductive is seductive no matter what the actions are and very wrong and disrespectful. I wonder how many woman feel it would be ok dancing like that with another guy? Or even better, how many women would be ok if their man let a girl dance like that with them?

Between your gf's behavior, how you feel about it, and how she responds to your feelings: methinks it's time to move on.

Your heart will break? Guess what: broken hearts heal. I don't mean to sound callous, but you're young, you will recover, and you'll be tougher and wiser for this experience.

Besides, it would be quite revealing to see how your gf responds if you break up with her.

Whats her nationality? most people from the Caribbeans dance like this. Its not that they want to have sex with that other person, its just how they dance.

There's nothing wrong with dancing as long as she is faithful and she is upfront on letting you know about it.

Originally posted by Mindship

Your heart will break? Guess what: broken hearts heal. I don't mean to sound callous, but you're young, you will recover, and you'll be tougher and wiser for this experience.

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or he'll commit suicide. 😐

i guess either way his problems are over though arent they? haermm

kmc is a horrible place to ask for advice. 😐

Whats in her mouth in that pic? Looks like paper 😖

I woulda dumped her by now or I woulda gone out and danced all seductive like with women, show her how it feels...hell I'd take the power from her...hate to be the one to give the tough love here cuz ya seem like a nice guy and she's taking advantage of that, I'm about to give you the best advice you'll ever hear...stop being such a pussy because to be honest thats what you're being...and she's taking advantage of that

I hope that paper is not someones number....

Originally posted by steverules_2
Whats in her mouth in that pic? Looks like paper 😖

I woulda dumped her by now or I woulda gone out and danced all seductive like with women, show her how it feels...hell I'd take the power from her...hate to be the one to give the tough love here cuz ya seem like a nice guy and she's taking advantage of that, I'm about to give you the best advice you'll ever hear...stop being such a pussy because to be honest thats what you're being...and she's taking advantage of that

Originally posted by steverules_2
Whats in her mouth in that pic? Looks like paper 😖

I thought the beast was foaming at the mouth...

Originally posted by Marvelknight
Me and my girlfriend live together and have been in a relationship for three years now. But she does certain things that cause a lot of stress for me. What I want to know from all of you, is how far would you let your boy/girlfriend go with certain things they do with a friend of the opposite sex, before you start to feel jealous, and what do you feel is inappropriate behavior in a relationship?

Originally posted by Marvelknight
I have a hard time just walking away because I love her very much.

It's quite obvious that this was a thread just about you and that this thread should have gone to the OTF. However, you probably would not have gotten so many serious responses. It kind of sucks that it has to be that way.

I created a GDF thread, one time, about the manufacturing habits of clothing producers and how they fashion them for bodies that don't really exist. It got moved to the OTF. I'll never forget. Evar.

Originally posted by Marvelknight
But at the same time I feel like my heart is being torn out from my chest. I know if I stay with her, She'll have way too much power in the relationship. And my pride and self respect as a man would be lost. I don't know or understand why any man would want their girlfriend dancing in a seductive manner with other men and be ok with it.

No man should and no woman should (if the gender roles were reversed in your scenario.) Humans are built to pair off for 2-3 years, at the very least. This swinger bullshit is just that, bullshit. Humans were not meant to be swingers. Very very few people can actually do it. Even swingers have problems with their "perm" partners.

Originally posted by Marvelknight
Because if it were any other actions like a hug, a kiss, or touching going on in seductive manner most guys I know would flip on their girlfriends. But dancing seductive is ok? What's the difference bettween dancing seductive and anything else done in a seductive manner? seductive is seductive no matter what the actions are and very wrong and disrespectful. I wonder how many woman feel it would be ok dancing like that with another guy? Or even better, how many women would be ok if their man let a girl dance like that with them?

No, you're right. You both have an obligation to each other, legally, because you live together. You have a social contract, as well, because you both claim to be the other's companion. If she chooses to ignore your wishes, you break up with her, cry a few days, and get the **** over it. The problem: you should have seen signs of her being a ho before you even committed. That's really your fault, dude.

I was in a relationship where me and my girlfriend would go out dancing and my boyfriend then to become husband was okay with it because I told him I was going and he knew that it was only dancing and that I would not ever cheat. He didn't like to dance, so he was okay with it.