Originally posted by Wild Shadow
thats why i get pissed with these self righteous @$$holes who say lock them all away they are all guilty.. if you bn arrested or harassed or even beaten you deserve it. f@## that and f#@#@ them to..after such experiences i no longer respect f#@$@# pigs whether some are good or not.. i dont break the law i have no reason to be stopped or question and if anyone of them ever raises their hands on me again i'll do to them what i should have done to the last ones i dont care if i get locked up.. i know i am innocent and that is good enough for me ill go to death row with no apologies.
shit like this makes you wnat to cry at the injustice of the world and idiots who want to be blind to it all makes you want to scream and wail on them for their ignorance
I read that big post of yours.
Everything could have been prevented had you been nicer.
I know, I know...bla bla bla.
But, if you weren't drinking (which isn't good for you), and you were nicer to the security guards, none of that wouldn't have happened.
Do you think if you would have spoken up when the security guards started getting mouthy, by saying something like, "Ah, come on, dude. We just wanted some help. There's not reason to be like that. C ya guys, and thanks for your time."
Badda boom....situation difused.
Example:
This idiot at the gym, a couple of years ago, wanted to get into a fight with me.
I was in the parking lot, with my homie and my sister. We were yelling across the parking lot at each other stupid jokes and comments. I yelled back, "The guy in the green shirt certainly wanted my nipples." It was an inside joke about a dude that was hitting on my at a restaurant. Well, some little idiot latino, walking across the parking lot, about 100 feet away, turns around, all pissed. Looking at his green shirt. He said, "Who's the guy in the green shirt, huh?"
I said, "I was talking to my homie, not you."
Him: "I'm wearing a green shirt. He's not. I'm the guy in the green shirt."
And he steps up like he's about to swing.
My arms are full of my gym stuff and my protein is in the other hand.
Me: "Dude, come on. Relax. It's an inside joke that doesn't invole you. I don't want any trouble. Even if I was talking about you, none of this would be worth a criminal work, for either of us."
He gave me the look, and walked away.
Now, I probably could have ripped him a new one because he was this middle aged, tiny, out of shape, latino. But, would it be worth a trip to jail? No.
I'm not saying we were in the same situation, we weren't. But, just thinking rationally and without your ego can go a long way.
Had both of you just calmed down and not talked back, you wouldn't have been in that situation. Your egos took over, and so did theirs. Not only could you have diffused the situation, you could have actually gotten the information you wanted to begin with. Also, if you guys looked like mexicans (wearing crappy clothes, smelled like BO, had the sanchez mustache, etc.), then they may have been racists. (Yes, sad, but some white people are racist.)
Instead of taking partial responsability for your actions, you are placing the blame completely on the others. Sure, they were at fault, but you made the situation worse, and so did your friend, so, you guys are at partial fault.
You can't just run your mouth and not expect someone to get pissed. It's gonna happen. This, coming from the guy that wanted to beat someone's ass so horribly that I was willing to throw away my scholarship and spotless record, just to prove a point to a loud mouth. (I barely diffused that situation...)