Originally posted by TacDavey
No, I'm not trying to tell anyone what kind of sex life they should be having. My only point is that if you don't want to get pregnant, there are ways to prevent it, the most significant being to avoid sex completely.That's it. A post was made earlier in the thread that seemed to suggest that women should be allowed to have abortions because they are the "victims" of pregnancy. As if women have absolutely no control over getting pregnant. My point was that is untrue, outside of rape, they have full control over avoiding pregnancy.
Only to the extent that I have "full control" over car accidents; I can avoid them by never crossing the street for the rest of my life. Obviously, i'm going to have to do it at some point.
Originally posted by TacDavey
You misunderstand. I am not placing the blame solely on the woman. I am simply pointing out that they do have options. Outside of rape, pregnancy is completely avoidable if they choose to take measures to avoid it (The same is true of men, but since men are not involved in abortions the point was never relevant). My only point in bringing this up is to remove the implication that women are "victims" of circumstances outside of their control.
Again, this is a very flawed framework to look at things from. A baseball player can avoid injuries if he stops playing. A steeplejack can avoid falls if he goes and works as "McDonalds". Obviously, abortions are only relevant if you are sexually active in the first place.