Originally posted by RaisenI think there does need to be an understanding though that you can be the hardest worker and still not get anywhere. There are a number of outside influences that are beyond people's ability to control. Anything from economic troubles, lack of influential friends, and other things.
you are mostly correct; but there are some of us who broke out of that mold. a few, but i'm one of them. mostly because my family had cultural pride in work and respected this country. my white grandfather came from denmark and fought the nazis. he spent three years in stalag 3 after he was shot down. he freaking escaped that pow camp.
my mexican granmother lived dirt poor with eleven siblings. her father and mother worked night and day on the farm they lived on. the man who owned the farm was mean but they were grateful to even have a place to live and be in a country with so many opportunities.
every generation we got a little better. i got my college degree. served this country and look forward to the day my daughter does better than me.some poor people have the will. it's about mindset. this victimhood only begets people who will not succeed.
i remember talking to a man from india here. he owned a store. i asked him why so many indians own these types of businesses. he explained the caste system and said that when one person succeeds in this country they send word back to their village...and they come over here and do the same thing. a poor village where the system of government will never let them rise. yet they thrive here. they are often confused for muslims and treated with disdain. yeah, that's racism, but look at what so many of them accomplish.
we need to recognize that there are stupid and ignorant people, but you can succeed. success is the best revenge.
Wanting people to succeed through hardwork is good but we shouldn't pretend that is all it takes to be successful either. There is also quite a bit of luck.