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Originally posted by Regret
You keep qualifying my statements. If something termed "love" does not fit the definition, it is not love, and has been labeled improperly. My definition of love is a wholly selfless feeling, it is what I would term the "pure love of Christ." If love is in any manner selfish, it is not wholly love.
Which again, would be "love" as defined within the bible(1 Corinthians 13: 1-13). I'm not trying to be purposely nitpicky, I just believe that as a Christian, it is important to make this distincition when discussing the concept of "love" with non-Christians. Most non-Christians will give worldly definitions of love when engaging in debate or discussion, and this can really confuse things.
I've read arguments in other threads like the following:
"I love my boyfriend and I'm gay, so even though I'm gay and not going to change my sexual behavior, I still know Christ because I know love."
If one doesn't make the distinction between God's love and the World's love right away, they'll end up engaging others in convoluted arguments like the one referenced above.
So instead of giving my own definition, I always feel it's easier(and more accurate) to give God's. It cuts to the heart of the matter, making it a lot easier to discern who truly is your loving friend, and who truly is your hateful foe.